Recent content by sunshinemisa

I have a phobia of needles so I think I scare the dentists more when I say no needle, just go ahead and drill....lol :p I totally agree :) I have lots that I would love to change, #1 I would want to save my dad so that he would still be here too. However, I believe that everything...

As hard as it is, forgive but don't forget. As many others have said, if you don't forgive, you become like a broken record and also become bitter as well. I had a very close group of friends that I considered family. I was there for them during the good times and especially there for the...

So I started my new job last week and to be honest, I was on pins and needles on my first day. Don't get me wrong, I've worked in a bakery before so it was just a question of getting use to their way of doing things. The first couple of days were a blur, 1) because I was still sick, 2) since I...

It doesn't sound dumb at all. "Hindsight is 20/20" and "If you knew then what you know now" If you learn from your mistakes or learn from experiences good or bad then you are that much wiser in life. :) Just curious as I am an introvert as well, how is it easier to socialize?

I like that answer "That's my non-committal answer for the day." I'll have to use that in arguements..lol!! ;p While I don't have kids per se ( I count my husband and my dog Timbit as kids :P) I do know what you mean by changing one thing from the past affecting the future. I often...

Sorry Callie. :( I totally agree with you, just was feeling a little low and a little frustrated right now. I know that looking back at this moment in time once I get a job, I'll be thinking, I wish I could go back to this moment in time. :)

Doesn't it suck when you don't have the power to fire the "kids". My heart goes out to you, it really does because I know truly how you feel. I used to call my former bakery the kindergarden romper room because my "kids" (mostly the full-timers who were older than me) were terrible and...

As one gets older, the question is similar but, the theme is always the same. Would you change something in the past or would you leave it as is? My answer to the question has always been the same. No, I would never change anything in the past. I truly believe that whatever happens, that you...

I can relate to this too. My mother always tore me down, no matter how well I did. She always compared me to some else's son or daughter and I always came out feeling like crap. I was always told that I was stupid and because I heard it so much I believed that I was stupid. My dad he was my...

Old broad? Age is nothing but a number (and how many aches and pains you have..lol :)) By my definition I guess I'm hittting at least 99 years of age..lol ;p I've been seeing the world with a more compassionate attitude and all I get back is negative attitudes. I try to ignore the...

You showed so much compassion throughtout this situation and also kept the lines of communication open just in case she was ever in a tight spot. More importantly you saved her life and others by doing what you did! If you haven't already, explain and tell whoever is making judgements about...

Wow, that's exactly how I feel! When I try to tell my husband, I get the "snap out of it already" or I get the guilt trip. People need to be more compassionate towards each other. I think that would make life a little easier.

I feel your pain. I would have to agree with lonekiller, these people aren't your friends. If they were, they would prob. use you. You do deserve better and you deserve to be happy with people who do want to spend time with you and truly care about you. If you decide not pursue, remember...

I'm afraid of getting really angry, like an exploding volcano. I've gotten upset and I've gotten mad but never so angry that it's irrational or that I've lost control.

I'm sorry to hear that "ol' lady", "crazy b*$@!" would do something like that. That's just .... childish is the only word that comes to mind right now. Good for you with the re-planting, too bad I didn't live in BC. I've been told that I need to let my anger out more and not supress it. I...