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Well, the advice I got here is sound, even if the reality of things won't change. I will stop accepting contact from him. And I will leave Facebook altogether for now. There's no one else left in my life for me to befriend at the moment. Someday there will be, maybe I will move towns in a few...

It's not going down well... This day isn't ending happily so far. Just refused a friendly conversation with my ex. I'll stay away from facebook for a few days, see how that plays out. I don't want to be left a shell, I've been through this before. Why it doesn't get easier? But I don't want to...

Anyone with a brain would consider this the best advice, Eve. And I know it is. But I've done it before. And turning my years with him into a bad memory, leaving nothing but this pain to associate them with... It's hard to choose feeling like that again. But insisting on keeping these ties and...

Hi. So... I've had this relationship for the past years. As always, my whole social life was derived from my partner's, and now that he is gone, those few "friends" are too. I'm in complete loneliness again. Been a few weeks since I've last talked to anyone but him. Even if he doesn't love me...

I usually just lurk around, but I can't seem to leave either. It's really nice to be here.

I always try to throw myself a mini-party for one, just because I feel like everyone deserves a special treat on their birthdays. I get some snacks, a cake, buy myself a gift wrapped present and set some baloons in my room, so that I can watch movies or play a game in a festive setting. It...

I hope your definition is incorrect. Otherwise I probably don't have any friends. Not even online. Haven't had one for a long time.

I love checking other people's art. It always tells so much about them. I'm a bit of an artist too, this is my deviantart account. http://gabmonteiro9389.deviantart.com/gallery/

I can relate to that. Here in Brazil we're enduring a losing battle against political corruption, mistreatment of minorities and the more I see the worst candidates getting elected, the more I feel the need to distance myself from society. Let them screw themselves alone.

We are going through a period of presidential elections in Brazil, right now. And you know what? Thank god I have no friends. Some people's opinions are often so disgusting and bigoted that being able to live free of the necessity of compromising and tolerating certain things is very liberating...

Sometimes I hope it is. For some people loneliness will remain an unavoidable condition, and the possibility of finding ways to make peace with it, or even enjoy it, is worth anything.

Paintings of environment used as background in video games and animation: What is your favorite confort food after a hard day?

Yes, I had. Unfortunately I had just gone through the end of a relationship, and my whole, although small, social life was derived from my ex, so there was no big celebration, no one to invite, I just bought myself a piece of cake e tried to be happy about it, you don't reach 25 every day. Have...

I'll try and keep this approach as well. Rewarding myself for the small accomplishments I can make is a matter of survival, nowadays, since I'm really not very good at the things I do and people don't have any reason to take me seriously as a person. Still, our achievments are our very own...

If anything, I can say I have an Idea of how you feel. Especially since such losses have occurred to me in times when there was no one else to listen to me, because the people I lost were all I had. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

OMG, where are you from? haha

First of all, I'd like to thank everyone who's responded and welcomed me. I've read through all of it and will continue to do so. Now... I think it's important to say that I'm over this. It's not that I won't meet new people or do new things. It's not that there are no people in my life whom...

Hi everyone, I'm new here. Been lurking for a while now, but decided to join just recently. I'd like to ask whoever reads this just what could be possible coping mechanisms for someone who has realized they are and will remain in a permanent condition of loneliness. What do you do when you...