Hi. So... I've had this relationship for the past years. As always, my whole social life was derived from my partner's, and now that he is gone, those few "friends" are too. I'm in complete loneliness again. Been a few weeks since I've last talked to anyone but him. Even if he doesn't love me anymore, we try to keep in touch every day, since he is still the best and only friend I have. But I just now came to know he's moved on already and his new (and handsome) boyfriend is spending a few days at his place, so he'll be offline until next monday. This is not the first time I go through this. Possibly not even the last. But it's not getting any easier. Does anyone have a tip on how to cope with no longer being important to someone? On how to get through the day knowing the one person you usually talk to is now with someone better and there's nothing but silence waiting for you in the next days? I'm trying to stay focused on my job today, but it's monotonous and not working so far. Maybe I shouldn't keep in touch with him if there's a chance that a more complete loneliness will hurt less than knowing how he is doing?
(sorry for bringing such teen-esque drama here, I just can't pay for professional help and there's no one who I can talk to about this)
(sorry for bringing such teen-esque drama here, I just can't pay for professional help and there's no one who I can talk to about this)