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Hi folks, I think it’s been almost four years since I last posted on here. I guess I’m back because, well, I still feel to a large degree like I have so many problems, mainly with dating, and it is something that I’m worried is going to mean I never find someone. I should say that I’m not...

Hi guys, hope you're all doing alright I've recently started going to uni and I got into this girl after we went out on a date. I asked her out kind of impulsively, but she was interested so we went out and it went really well. There was rarely a break in conversation and it wasn't awkward at...

Look to be honest if this is your first time where you feel you are able to make an impression on someone who interests you, then it's always going to be hard. But even if it doesn't work out, treat it as a learning experience. Every time you attempt to, or do enter into something with someone...

Yea so I've been best friends with two other people for around a year and we've been fine and we've never really had arguments or anything. But they got together recently and now I just feel really alone, I suppose. Alone and depressed is kind of my sitting feeling. It's how I feel when I'm not...

Keeping in touch with your ex is probably one of the hardest things you can do post relationship. I don't really have much experience with relationships either but after one of the few that I did have me and my ex decided to stay friends because we thought it'd be too hard not to see each other...

I feel really strange about posting this, but I suppose I've had this fear for a while now, but just realised it. I've been trying to get a job for ages. I've just turned 18 and I'm living with my parents as most do at this age, but I hate being at home because I feel like I'm burdening them...

Yep, I'm very single and still love the same person I loved two years ago. They're in their second relationship since me, and I haven't been in one. I feel pretty honeysuckle about it most of the time, and pretty lonely in general.

I seldom reveal how lonely I am, but I guess my loneliness comes as a result of a disconnect with friends rather than a lack of them. I really wish there was someone who I could connect with, and stay connected with. Often, if I get over the initial hump of talking to someone I feel connected to...

So many of my friends have people that they can count on to always be there; one specific person that they can always talk to. But I feel alone, and I feel like I always will. If recent events have proved anything, it's that my anxiety is getting worse, I'm getting worse at meeting new people...

Thanks! I'm really not sure at this point. It's been awhile, but I'll consider it. Still, thank you. It is difficult to do this stuff.

Yeah, I thought about that. I dunno, there's so many things it could be. But thanks anyway guys. Should I just ask her if we're chill? I'm really bad at this sort of thing.

Honestly, I have no idea. No teen in Melbourne likes to look like they're in a rush I guess. I think that's unlikely. She's pretty confident. Who knows though.

I'd like some music that I've never heard before to make me feel emotional.

Okay, there's a lot to get through here, so sorry if it becomes an incoherent mess, but I'll do the best I can. Any responses would be much appreciated. Okay, so a couple weeks ago, I went to this party an I was talking to this girl from school. We were kind of flirting, in a weird way. To be...

I think just being able to have a good conversation with someone is a good first date for me. I get really anxious talking to people one-on-one, so if I found I was comfortable just talking to this person, then I would immediately feel positive after the date. What I'd do doesn't matter too...

What do you do when you're alone and you feel yourself lapsing back into that state of sadness, when you're just reflecting on past mistakes and negative feelings about yourself? It happens to me almost all the time at home. I try and get out a lot to distract myself, but I'd like to know any...

Yeah, I'd like to do that, but maybe I'll get more into the forum itself and get to know some of the people better before any of that.

Thanks so much to everyone that's replied to my post. I'll keep in mind everything you've all said, especially to do with forming new relationships. I realise that my issues are small in comparison to many others on this forum, but they are the hardest that I've had to endure thus far in my...

Hey everyone. I really needed a place to vent because there's a lot to get out. I'm glad this place exists. I'm 17, and I have a strong dislike for myself, and I'm lonely because no-one seems to get that I dislike myself, or why. There's lots of reasons really - I'm ugly and selfish, and while...