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Well, if you want to know, is there a "you". Ask yourself, can you really explain who you are, the emotions you feel, the pain that holds you down to others? Or are you only able to convey that you are IN pain. If you really think hard about this, and try your best to describe yourself you will...

The void is in everyone. You ever hear someone talk about trying to fill a hole in their lives? That's the emptiness you feel, that's what they are talking about. Everyone has it, no matter how happy they are, it's universal to all people. It's just part of life.

Fantastic, reminds me of Don Hertzfeldts narratives. Very well done, turned this into a notepad for the future, thank you.

Fantastic!

Don't read too much into these sorts of things, communication is the best course of action, leaving everything up to interpretation causes all conflict in the world. In the end it will cause fights between girlfriend and boyfriend, because they were too afraid to communicate initially, and...

I'm just wondering how loneliness would feel to others if they found out they were sick, and faced their mortality directly rather than from afar. Thinking about death, especially in my study of the Tibetan Book of the Dead, has allowed me to handle any problems I'm faced with in the day, any...

You've taken quite the offensive stance towards my character, regardless of your intention to do so. Well, my empty words, can be only that. It's actions that prove character, and show love, but there aren't many actions I can do over a virtual landscape to assist people in their lives. I...

Trust me friend, humanity has treated me like absolute filthy waste, I've been used and mistreated like a filthy rag. I also know that for a long period of my life, it seemed no women smiled at me either, I believed they hadn't because I wanted to, because it made sense to be ugly that's who I...

Women have never pursued me once in my life, the few women I've had in my life, I worked tirelessly to woo, and it was never quick or easy. You say you gave up 10 years ago, so I have to assume that I've tried harder to pursue women than you have. Love doesn't just come to you, especially as a...

Many times. To my face, behind my back, hurt all the same. I suppose I entered a certain phase of my life, where it's my heart that is called ugly now, rather than my face. It used to destroy me, and I hated the way I looked, now I don't even consider it, unless the idea of insecurity of vanity...

My friend it is clear you don't want to be alone. The only way you can not be alone is to make friends, or get into a relationship... Look, I gave up on dating as well, I was 19 years old before I had a girlfriend, and one day I decided to try again, a week later I had a girlfriend who I fell in...

This isn't wholly true. It's only true for the majority of people, all of which should be irrelevant. You're only as ugly as you think you are, in your own mind, and in the minds of those who should not matter to you. It's quite possible to avoid judging a person on their looks the first time...

I seem to have touched a sensitive nerve for many people with this post. There are certain conditions assumed at the offset of my question, I was asking people if they have chosen to abstain, whether or not it has helped them in loneliness, there can be no variable in that question for...

You're alive because without you, the universe would be far less wonderful. So you're here to make things more enjoyable, fun and beautiful for everyone else, just by being here. I actually wrote something to the tune of this a while back... ------------------ The long tawny grass gleamed in the...

Well technically, we have only a certain amount of time in which we are able to take action, we could do 100 nice deeds for random people in a day, or 100 for a smaller group of people. It is within our hearts to give love to everyone on earth, but time limits us, and acts as a constraint, we...

Aha, not my theory but the Buddha's, but you are completely in your bounds to disagree with his way of thinking, I don't mean to say what is objectively true, because I don't believe much in the way of objectivity. But I did not mean to say that you could love one person more than another...

What I mean by this. Is that if you have someone in your life, who you love absolutely (in a romantic sense, mutually exclusive from the act or idea of sex) you do limit your spectrum of love, it can be just as diverse and large, but at the end of the day there will be bias for who gets love...

Are you saying this to me? :S

I'm just wondering, mainly, how many of those afflicted with loneliness, knowing how long the shadow of it is cast, would be willing to abstain from sexual intercourse, into celibacy. I've found that not targetting any one person, in a romantic or sexual nature, allows my heart a pretty near...

The, I suppose funny, part of that would be how often I've been accused of such things. I remember nearly two years back, I hadn't left my house for 8 months. During this time I was accused of having been standing in a girls yard watching her through her back windows, After that I was harassed...