GrannySmith111
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Just felt the need to vent today. I just feel so empty for some reason . If you look at my previous posts, I used to have this close group of friends whom I'd always hangout with.
It got to the point where they asked me to go to a football game and just blew me off at the last second, because they all had to do "homework". After that, we never really hungout in person and haven't hung out recently. My friend apologized to me for the whole thing over text, but it was a really blunt and short apology. One thing that remained the same though was how they seemed to always have time to play video games with me on PS3. Instead of hanging out, they would ask me to get online on the weekends and everything seemed normal while we were playing online. I kind of felt like they were using me, and I made a post about that too here. A lot of you guys told me to just leave them and that they were just using me as a convenience friend.
Well, I listened to the advice since I felt the same thing. I deleted them and stopped texting them, contacting them or playing with them on PS3. I basically just severed my ties with them to see what would happen. Weeks have gone by and none of them have contacted me :/.
I don't understand why these friends that were once so close to me have just left me without saying a word :/. My mom thinks that it was something I did to make them mad. Given all the crap they've been giving me and BS, it really feels like the right thing to do to leave these people. What's the point of playing video games with them if they never hangout with me in person?
I don't necessarily wish that this would change and they would hangout with me again. I just wish that I could find a good group of friends to hangout with.
It got to the point where they asked me to go to a football game and just blew me off at the last second, because they all had to do "homework". After that, we never really hungout in person and haven't hung out recently. My friend apologized to me for the whole thing over text, but it was a really blunt and short apology. One thing that remained the same though was how they seemed to always have time to play video games with me on PS3. Instead of hanging out, they would ask me to get online on the weekends and everything seemed normal while we were playing online. I kind of felt like they were using me, and I made a post about that too here. A lot of you guys told me to just leave them and that they were just using me as a convenience friend.
Well, I listened to the advice since I felt the same thing. I deleted them and stopped texting them, contacting them or playing with them on PS3. I basically just severed my ties with them to see what would happen. Weeks have gone by and none of them have contacted me :/.
I don't understand why these friends that were once so close to me have just left me without saying a word :/. My mom thinks that it was something I did to make them mad. Given all the crap they've been giving me and BS, it really feels like the right thing to do to leave these people. What's the point of playing video games with them if they never hangout with me in person?
I don't necessarily wish that this would change and they would hangout with me again. I just wish that I could find a good group of friends to hangout with.