@Tiger lily: Yeah I have noticed that is the problem with clubs and programs. Granted the walking group does not really surprise me. Younger people tend to prefer more... umm challenging sports. Walking group does not really strike me as a group that climbs 14ers. I agree it is hard to find young people who go out and socialize through clubs and classes after school ends. However, that does not mean that you cannot still be friends with the older people. You never know they might have kids your age.
Never hurts to hope.
I agree, that bars are not really my scene either. Well.. I think I enjoy them more when I am drunk and with people I am familiar with.
Not to be rude... but you say you need to be attracted to person mentally and physically. You say you prefer mental to physical. What do you feel makes a person mentally attractive? I mean if I were to start a conversation about... oh something I know.. the main differences between various Smartphone operating systems. Would that make me mentally attractive? What if I were to talk about my interest in Japan? How it is fascinating of a country it is? Or why I prefer anime to regular television.... or one of my favorites how various umm "green" causes make me sick. Or would a guy who could make you laugh would that be mentally attractive? Simple or complex... what is preferable?
I know where all the girls I want to be with are, in their beds with their ass wipe boyfriends. Sometimes I feel that too many people live by the belief "If it is too good to be true it probably is". Because it is better to be alone than to take a chance have a little fun and maybe be disappointed. Maybe there are plenty of nice guys around you. However, they exhibit behaviors of the ******** who you are scared will take advantage of you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained?
I am not trying to pick a fight... just thinking out loud.