Please give me any advice you can.
There are three girls that I can pursue. There are good solid reasons behind each. Please help!
1. I can pursue the girl I have dreamed about for about 10 years. She does not show any inclination that she likes me and the only contact I have with her is Facebook... when she responds which isn't always very often. This is the option that I am drifting away from
2. Pursue an extremely beautiful girl in one of my classes. I talk to her at the beginning of class and sometimes at the end. When I see her in the hall she smiles and says hello, just in passing. However every guy out there is gunning for her. She has that popular girl feel but not the snobby kind. I see her the most (which is pretty much every other day).
3. There is a girl that I asked on a date in High School but she couldn't do it but she has made it clear that she does have feelings for me. I only see her every now and then but I could make more of an effort. Finding the 1st girl sent me down an emotional rollercoaster that rendered me unable to pursue this relationship. This girl I know the most about and is the most like me. Plus I already made the leap for her and know that I won't be turned away or left standing in the rain.
What do you think I can do? The 1st girl already seems to have moved on and the 2nd can have any guy she wants. I don't want to hurt the 3rd. I am not suggesting getting into a relationship with her just to avoid hurting her although it is a valid point. Any help would be appreciated. I want to get past this
Thanks
Aedammair
There are three girls that I can pursue. There are good solid reasons behind each. Please help!
1. I can pursue the girl I have dreamed about for about 10 years. She does not show any inclination that she likes me and the only contact I have with her is Facebook... when she responds which isn't always very often. This is the option that I am drifting away from
2. Pursue an extremely beautiful girl in one of my classes. I talk to her at the beginning of class and sometimes at the end. When I see her in the hall she smiles and says hello, just in passing. However every guy out there is gunning for her. She has that popular girl feel but not the snobby kind. I see her the most (which is pretty much every other day).
3. There is a girl that I asked on a date in High School but she couldn't do it but she has made it clear that she does have feelings for me. I only see her every now and then but I could make more of an effort. Finding the 1st girl sent me down an emotional rollercoaster that rendered me unable to pursue this relationship. This girl I know the most about and is the most like me. Plus I already made the leap for her and know that I won't be turned away or left standing in the rain.
What do you think I can do? The 1st girl already seems to have moved on and the 2nd can have any guy she wants. I don't want to hurt the 3rd. I am not suggesting getting into a relationship with her just to avoid hurting her although it is a valid point. Any help would be appreciated. I want to get past this
Thanks
Aedammair