I guess what the article is trying to say is approch her in style with charm.
Staight up pretaining to this..."Hey baby, you have the pretties eyes i wanna crawl into forever,... let's fresia" is probably not
recommended. It's fucken common sense.
Then again..I've also had women approched me and told me straight up what they want....
Handed me thier numbers without me even asking them or invite me back to her place becuase she wants to use my body
for the night...stright up. OBVIOUSLY...I'm not sitting at home when this happens.
If you're single and you see a woman you like...You have nothing to loose if you aprroch her. You might never see her again.
Even if you do see her again...you'll never know unless you ask. Unless you're luckie like me, women approch me or ask me out.
Then again I chit chat with people male or female straight across the board. So it's not a big deal if I talk to a complete stranger.
A simple hello....how R ya doing today with a smile on my face. Then whatever small talk...then it can lead into other things...
Bascailly when I was dating. I had a sponsor or a sort of life coach that was helping through the process of dating.
He bascailly told me to put myself out there, face my fears, have courage. I had to go do some paper work. Then i saw a
babe that fits the bill...I bascailly just made small talk with her. Ask her for more instructions and what have ya...
Then i ran into her at a super market...F-it, she seen me before. She say hi to me...Then I asked her if she wanted to go
see a play...She actually said "Yes". But she fucken stood me up. So I was tripping on getting rejected like that...so I called
my sponsor...whined and talked about.
Then he told me to go pray to Saint Francis stactue in the court yard...
In the middle of the day where everyone could see me...Errr i thought it was corney as fresia.
But i did it...I felt stupid and had all those feelings of fears, what people might think and wtf???
i got on my knees and prayed for like 5 mins....
Errr...those were the same feelings i had when I try to ask a woman out..
he constanty got me to ask women out. At the end of the day that's what he coached me to do.
After about a month of that...not going nowhere, rejections after rejections..getting rejected wasn't a big deal to me
anymore..approching women wasn't a big deal anymore...Then some of the women started calling me.
And some of the new women I asked out actually went on dates with me...
I was all happy and stuff going out on a first day...after a couple of weeks of that. I started dating 5-6 women.
Some people might judge me as being a player. I work through that too. My sponsor coached me through it.
I was dating...It was a good experince for me. i needed to know I can approch women and be sucessful at it.
it wasn't a new concept to me...I did that at work all the time.
I had to bid for contracts...I had to do a lot of work to turn in bids for milty million dolllar contracts.
i get tired of doing them...but I got paid the bucks. Never the less it still messed with me...becuase it was still my work or something that i did.
I do around 10-15 bids..but didn't get any relpies. 90 days later clients would call me back and award me contracts.
hahaaaaaa , don't worry. I had a personal secutary to correct my grammer or spelling..lol
I used to get bitched at for touching the copy machine...i got paid too much to be touching the copy machine..Errrrr
If i get luckie...I get 2 out of every 10-12 bids I put out....So it's was just a matter of appling that same principle in my life.
Bascailly every long term relationship I was in...the women had asked me out.