ohh i have a lot of problems with gaydar as in mine sucks
one time i asked out a straight girl, ya that was pretty smooth,
but in my defense somehow in some sick twist of fate, it has now become fashionable for straight girls to dress like gay chicks
WHEN IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND HAVE GAY CHICKS STARTED A FASHIONED TREND!!??
*sighs* sorry just had to throw that out there, because it's totally messed up
what I've heard is that you really have to hang around gay people a lot to pick up their habits, way of speaking and the little things that differ from straight people. Although that's kind of a catch 22 if I can't find gay people becuase i don't have gaydar, how do i find gay people to help me develop my gaydar?
is there a gay club or any LGBT groups anywhere that you could join? most colleges have some. Are there any Gay bars in your area, you could try googling it, theen if you want to you can clear your google history afterwards
there are also like gay forums online probably,
you can try dating sites, there are some exclusivily gay dating sites, but they don't get a whole lot of traffic and often make you pay
you can try zoosk, plentyoffish or okay cupid. They will let you choose your preference of what your looking for whether, male female or both
If you're talking with someone, you can ask what they think about gay rights, or see if they have any witty buttons referencing something gay.
Or you can try to hook them up with a date with a girl, if they seem uncomfortable or try to avoid it, you may have a gay.
I donno i hope this helps some. Don't be afraid what's the least that can happen,
although ya you should probably get a full I am gay confirmation, and not just snippets of an overheard conversation before you ask them out
and also make sure they know what it means by go out,
surprisingly enough for some crazed reason there are still people who don't know what that means
good luck