TheLonelyNomad
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hey fellow ALL brothers and sisters. Been a while since I have posted here due to work, and I have another job to make ends meet.
Anyhow, I feel down, but oddly, somewhat good after my breakup with my girlfriend two weeks ago.
I could sense that our relationship was headed in the wrong direction when she stopped sending me text messages, and I was the one doing a lot of the initiation of text messages and scheduling lunch or dinner meet-ups with her. This started to happen towards the end of March.
Plus she would not that attractive looking. I'd say a 3 out of 5 rating.
I also got suspicious of her when I bought her a birthday present, and she never even bothered to send me a text message to thank me.
I also got upset with her when I went out of town on a trip to Southern california about a month ago, when she didn't even bother to send me a "have a nice trip" text message, when I have sent her text messages when she went on trips for the Christmas holiday as well as to Las Vegas for her birthday (note that she didn't stay around to celebrate her birthday with me).
We finally had our last dinner together on May 7th. I had her pay for the dinner because I was infuriated with her. We ended up splitting the cost of our dinner.
After dinner, I went home, and we talked over the phone to break up our relationship.
Since I gave her a gold pendant for Christmas present, and that present was worth a lot of money (my mother also pitched in to buy that gift for her), I told her to meet me later that weekend and give me back the gold pendant. Surprisingly, she complied and we met up at her workplace, and gave it back to me. I didn't want to get back the birthday gift I gave her. But my mother was insistent on having me get back the dish/plate collection I bought her for her birthday present. That too, she gave back.
That was the last time I saw her.
Although I have been feeling depressed for the last two weeks, I also have this odd feeling of relief.
I think that I have gained some dating experience over the 8 months we have been together.
I also think that God has decided it's best for me to have broken up with her, as this gives me the chance to leave my city to find other job-related opportunities to advance in my career, as the city I live in has little to no opportunities to gain experience in my profession (as a person without experience).
Anyhow, I feel down, but oddly, somewhat good after my breakup with my girlfriend two weeks ago.
I could sense that our relationship was headed in the wrong direction when she stopped sending me text messages, and I was the one doing a lot of the initiation of text messages and scheduling lunch or dinner meet-ups with her. This started to happen towards the end of March.
Plus she would not that attractive looking. I'd say a 3 out of 5 rating.
I also got suspicious of her when I bought her a birthday present, and she never even bothered to send me a text message to thank me.
I also got upset with her when I went out of town on a trip to Southern california about a month ago, when she didn't even bother to send me a "have a nice trip" text message, when I have sent her text messages when she went on trips for the Christmas holiday as well as to Las Vegas for her birthday (note that she didn't stay around to celebrate her birthday with me).
We finally had our last dinner together on May 7th. I had her pay for the dinner because I was infuriated with her. We ended up splitting the cost of our dinner.
After dinner, I went home, and we talked over the phone to break up our relationship.
Since I gave her a gold pendant for Christmas present, and that present was worth a lot of money (my mother also pitched in to buy that gift for her), I told her to meet me later that weekend and give me back the gold pendant. Surprisingly, she complied and we met up at her workplace, and gave it back to me. I didn't want to get back the birthday gift I gave her. But my mother was insistent on having me get back the dish/plate collection I bought her for her birthday present. That too, she gave back.
That was the last time I saw her.
Although I have been feeling depressed for the last two weeks, I also have this odd feeling of relief.
I think that I have gained some dating experience over the 8 months we have been together.
I also think that God has decided it's best for me to have broken up with her, as this gives me the chance to leave my city to find other job-related opportunities to advance in my career, as the city I live in has little to no opportunities to gain experience in my profession (as a person without experience).