Led, as you might know or not know I'm a recoverying alcoholic or addict.
The nature of addiction alone is obsessive and complusive.
While drugs and alcohol had very, very destructive conquence in my life...so I had to stopped at a young age..
Just becuase I stopped drinking and using (physical addiction/abstance) dosn't necessary meant the ocpd was completly
removed from my life..It's every fustrating at times. It manifest itself any other areas of my life.
While being workaholic didn't bothered my boss...the pissed off my ex-gf.
I cacth myself faster..never the less..this didn't mean I stopped certain behaviors.
Sometimes I'll even watch myself doing it...or go into my ocd.
Letting go...helps me prevent myself from going into compulsion mode.
This is also one of the reasons why I had a hard time getting over my GF..becuase it wasn't
my chioce to break up...so I went into an obession over it a bit..lol
I counldn't get over her.
I also obesess in playing and writing music sometimes.
Err...I have all kinds of stuff..i purchased that I don't need..lol
The guilt trip of being obsessive was every damnaging to my mental health...
I was actaully surprized that some AA memebers would tell me to go and drink...
get it done and over with..out of the way...Err ??? that wasn't what I expexct to hear in an AA meeting .lol
They were correct...the more i tried to stop drinking the more I drank...WTF ???
I've also been able to tell myself...Yes..I did it and I'm going to do it again...and again and again..lol
Some reason...that seems to remove the obsession or unsolved itched..lmao
I simply just ask god to remove the obsession from me...No, I'm not religiouse.
I just got sick and tired of bein sick and tire of figthing my obessions.
Beats the hell out of me if other people beliving in god or not...I needed peace in my life.
I needed to stop beating up on myself or getting angery at myself for having obsessive or compulsive behaviors.
I needed to stop feeling guilty and ashame of having such a condition.
It's like if I was to get angery at myself for having cancer sometype of other illness.
I've also found some comfort or releaved through meditations...err no, I'm not a monk.
I have obsessive and complusive thoughts or thinking....meditations helps me slow down my thoughts or get
me out of my mind. In other words...I LOST MY MIND...lmao
I reside in my heart, upper consiousness, spirit or in the grace of god...
woooo hooo.. I ma such a guru..lmao
I don't mediate so much in seeking god or to get closer to god...I do it to get peace of mind.
Then again some people say...that I've found god...maybe I did through defualt.lmao
BWT, god told me...."YA fucken Wierd dude...but I love you anyway"...
fresia it..I have boobies obsessions today.(substitutions)
I'm also obsessing over reading books today....it's more positive or less destructive.
Yet i know obsessing over anything is not too good for me...
Progress not perfections....