I dont know about the rest of you, but it seems I have this knack for allowing myself to get into complicated situations. Some of you might or might not know that I am in the middle of a divorce with my 2nd wife and because of things getting heated, I got a lawyer. You know, I gotta stand up for my fatherly rights. But for the most part, things have cooled down a little and things arent so dramatic at the moment, so thats good.
So now, there is this entirely different complicated situation that I probably do have the ability to opt out of, but im not sure if i should. You see, I somehow got back into communications with an old girl friend from almost 12 years ago. Based on what I got out of what she was saying, shes at a very low spot in her life.
Where too begin.....
Well, I guess the main issue of concern is her addiction to heroine. She had said she went into rehabilitation for it and she found christianity as a way to help make her strong, and according to her, she did stop for awhile, but then she got hooked on it again. Its just that this situation she found herself in. She had no place to go, so this guy offered to help her get on her feet. Its too bad he does heroine and gives her some everytime she needs it. So, no matter how hard she says she wants to quit, it is going to be near impossible when you are living with someone who always has it.
Based on our history of us being a couple once upon a time, there is still an emotional connection and I want to be able to help her, but im not sure how. Im not sure if she is fabricating certain things to get sympathy from me. Sometimes I thought that her mentioning of finding god and christianity was just a front to make herself not look like such a bad person. Im also afraid that we both might get emotionally attached to one another and Im not sure if I can deal with that right now. And not to mention my involvement in dealing with someone that does heroine. Especially when Im trying to fight for 50/50 placement with my son. My association with a heroine user might make all of this blow up in my face.
But, she does seem like she is very upset and alone in this world. And I do want to be able to help her, its just that all of this is complicated. I guess the only thing that I can do is try and be supportive and lend out a shoulder to cry on. I just wish there was more that I could do.
So now, there is this entirely different complicated situation that I probably do have the ability to opt out of, but im not sure if i should. You see, I somehow got back into communications with an old girl friend from almost 12 years ago. Based on what I got out of what she was saying, shes at a very low spot in her life.
Where too begin.....
Well, I guess the main issue of concern is her addiction to heroine. She had said she went into rehabilitation for it and she found christianity as a way to help make her strong, and according to her, she did stop for awhile, but then she got hooked on it again. Its just that this situation she found herself in. She had no place to go, so this guy offered to help her get on her feet. Its too bad he does heroine and gives her some everytime she needs it. So, no matter how hard she says she wants to quit, it is going to be near impossible when you are living with someone who always has it.
Based on our history of us being a couple once upon a time, there is still an emotional connection and I want to be able to help her, but im not sure how. Im not sure if she is fabricating certain things to get sympathy from me. Sometimes I thought that her mentioning of finding god and christianity was just a front to make herself not look like such a bad person. Im also afraid that we both might get emotionally attached to one another and Im not sure if I can deal with that right now. And not to mention my involvement in dealing with someone that does heroine. Especially when Im trying to fight for 50/50 placement with my son. My association with a heroine user might make all of this blow up in my face.
But, she does seem like she is very upset and alone in this world. And I do want to be able to help her, its just that all of this is complicated. I guess the only thing that I can do is try and be supportive and lend out a shoulder to cry on. I just wish there was more that I could do.