Iceman1978
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I'm sure that I'll feel better in a few days, but sometimes being single can be upsetting for me. Does anyone else experience this from time to time?
Phaedron said:At least the only downside to being single is the yearning and longing, whereas the downside of being in a relationship wastes a lot of time and drives you crazy with all sorts of drama. It tends to waste a lot of money too. I just try to look at the good side of wherever I am and the bad of where I could be.
Phaedron said:You know whats worse then being single.... being with someone and dealing with their arguments, suspecisions, annoying moments, or even if you only do one night stands: you might wake up with a STD or even find out your kidneys have been stolen! We all need to remember the grass isn't really any greener. Nature generally has a way of compensating for everyone. Worst of all, don't ever hookup out of desperation, even if it's mutual.
At least the only downside to being single is the yearning and longing, whereas the downside of being in a relationship wastes a lot of time and drives you crazy with all sorts of drama. It tends to waste a lot of money too. I just try to look at the good side of wherever I am and the bad of where I could be.
In the end it really doesn't matter where I am at all. Desire will always yearn for what it doesn't have, and come to ignore what it does have.
LoneKiller said:Oddly enough, I enjoy being single.
And how do you know that you couldn't get a date if you wanted to? You don't really.Iceman1978 said:Most of the time I do too. It's not so much being single that bothers me as it is the thought that I couldn't get a date even if I really wanted to.
suckaG said:I recently thought I had made a real connection with someone. did the coffee thing followed by the dinner thing. We talked for hours, both times. Texting each other on the regular. Had real high hopes.
******* stupid.
ladyforsaken said:What happened?
suckaG said:I asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie, and she flaked on me like a champion. ah well. plenty of fish in the sea, I just have to hone my fishing skills and polish up my lure.
Aube said:@Ashariel. I feel the same: 50% wants to be with someone, 50% does like being alone.
Sometimes when you've had much pain and drama, you feel better being alone. I also don't like the ''game of dating'' going around. Maybe I'll change my mind later but for now, it's ok being alone.
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