silvertrees
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I have heard somewhere the saying go something like this
“Cry, you cry alone. Laugh and the whole world laughs with you.”
Is it possible? Is it really possible to keep the sadness and loneliness to myself and to smile when in public. Do those who are cheerful and sociable actually suffer from sudden sadness and loneliness, if not chronicle, but sob alone in the bed or behind the wheel and put a smile on their face?
it has a cathartic effect to cry for sure. I certainly don’t want to be seen crying. It is sad to cry and sad to see someone crying. I cannot split two halves of me completely separate. the part of me that cries eventually catches up with the part of me that tries to look everything is okay. I feel like I want someone to know the part of me that cries without actually being seen crying. Or can I still build a close relationship with people without showing extreams? I hold back from showing dark sides of myself but that is precisely part pf the reason I get sad and lonely.
Maybe I should work on the crying side so I don’t have to cry rather than switching between the sad and the cheerful. I certainly am not equipped for that.
It is so sad to think people cry alone but we all seem to have to do it.. It is just sometimes too much you know...
“Cry, you cry alone. Laugh and the whole world laughs with you.”
Is it possible? Is it really possible to keep the sadness and loneliness to myself and to smile when in public. Do those who are cheerful and sociable actually suffer from sudden sadness and loneliness, if not chronicle, but sob alone in the bed or behind the wheel and put a smile on their face?
it has a cathartic effect to cry for sure. I certainly don’t want to be seen crying. It is sad to cry and sad to see someone crying. I cannot split two halves of me completely separate. the part of me that cries eventually catches up with the part of me that tries to look everything is okay. I feel like I want someone to know the part of me that cries without actually being seen crying. Or can I still build a close relationship with people without showing extreams? I hold back from showing dark sides of myself but that is precisely part pf the reason I get sad and lonely.
Maybe I should work on the crying side so I don’t have to cry rather than switching between the sad and the cheerful. I certainly am not equipped for that.
It is so sad to think people cry alone but we all seem to have to do it.. It is just sometimes too much you know...