Rahvin
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I suffer from Depression, and Derealization, and so sometimes my feelings can deceive me...and I'll get a feeling of uncaring, or a lack of feeling altogether, and sadly, this includes love. But it always goes away after some time.
A few days ago, my dog died as I held her on a veterinarians table. I haven't fully recovered and I won't for a long time. But this isn't about that, that is only a piece of information that might be relevant.
Last night, I left my girlfriend. She was perfect to me, and perfect for me in every way, but I left her. Over the past month or so, my feelings for her have become faded, and I haven't really felt "love" for her. I tried to keep going, hoping that it was just an effect of some of the previously mentioned things, but last night I decided that to keep the relationship going when I was unsure of what i wanted, when my feelings had faded was wrong for both her and myself.
Today I find myself...sad and empty, wondering if I gave up too easily, If i didn't try hard enough, if I could've fixed things. I wonder if I made a horrible mistake by leaving the perfect girl over a feeling that could possibly just be because of my issues.
I don't know what to do..I miss her so terribly, and a big part of me believes that if we tried we could rekindle things to be better than they were before, to fix things and become even stronger...but the other part of me knows that if this isn't just a fleeting feeling of emptiness, if i really don't love her anymore, that trying again would only cause more pain, and would end in failure, and as such, i made the right choice.
I wish I could trust my feelings, I wish I knew what I really wanted. Right now I just want to talk to her again, I miss her. Did I fresia up?
A few days ago, my dog died as I held her on a veterinarians table. I haven't fully recovered and I won't for a long time. But this isn't about that, that is only a piece of information that might be relevant.
Last night, I left my girlfriend. She was perfect to me, and perfect for me in every way, but I left her. Over the past month or so, my feelings for her have become faded, and I haven't really felt "love" for her. I tried to keep going, hoping that it was just an effect of some of the previously mentioned things, but last night I decided that to keep the relationship going when I was unsure of what i wanted, when my feelings had faded was wrong for both her and myself.
Today I find myself...sad and empty, wondering if I gave up too easily, If i didn't try hard enough, if I could've fixed things. I wonder if I made a horrible mistake by leaving the perfect girl over a feeling that could possibly just be because of my issues.
I don't know what to do..I miss her so terribly, and a big part of me believes that if we tried we could rekindle things to be better than they were before, to fix things and become even stronger...but the other part of me knows that if this isn't just a fleeting feeling of emptiness, if i really don't love her anymore, that trying again would only cause more pain, and would end in failure, and as such, i made the right choice.
I wish I could trust my feelings, I wish I knew what I really wanted. Right now I just want to talk to her again, I miss her. Did I fresia up?