alohdrahon
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Why do you think some people have such an easy time connecting with other people? Why is it some people no matter what they do cant seem to get that switch to flip and have fulfilling relationships, or in some cases cant seem to get aquaintances much less friends?
I have a few people ive made connections with who I just clicked right away and i dont understand why. Then other times like certain places, online and off that it just doesnt seem to matter what i do its not gonna happen. Does anybody else feel like this and doesnt really understand why?
If everybody wouldnt mind could you list some things, just off the top of your head that help you feel a connection to people? Also maybe list some things that would potentially cause you to avoid a person.
I would really appreciate any insight into this as im trying to better myself and overcome some bad habits etc due to a life lived with anxiety induced thinking and at the point im at now (working on overcoming my anxiety) its hard to tell whats automatic negative thinking, and whats reality. If that makes any sense.
Because of the huge amount of time ive lived alone the majority of my life im thinking maybe i didnt learn some basic social skills and knowledge others take for granted.
Thanks ahead of time for any advice or insights.
I have a few people ive made connections with who I just clicked right away and i dont understand why. Then other times like certain places, online and off that it just doesnt seem to matter what i do its not gonna happen. Does anybody else feel like this and doesnt really understand why?
If everybody wouldnt mind could you list some things, just off the top of your head that help you feel a connection to people? Also maybe list some things that would potentially cause you to avoid a person.
I would really appreciate any insight into this as im trying to better myself and overcome some bad habits etc due to a life lived with anxiety induced thinking and at the point im at now (working on overcoming my anxiety) its hard to tell whats automatic negative thinking, and whats reality. If that makes any sense.
Because of the huge amount of time ive lived alone the majority of my life im thinking maybe i didnt learn some basic social skills and knowledge others take for granted.
Thanks ahead of time for any advice or insights.