Among the Sleep
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This feels like an obvious question, because it's what I've been told my entire life. But I'm looking for some verification here. I don't understand what it is about confident guys that would attract a girl. I mean, do I look for confident girls? Not really. If a girl seems to be way too much of a "yes-man" (I guess yes-woman would be the more proper term but I've never heard it used, lol) that can be kind of annoying. A little unattractive, even. But I mean, I'm OK with that.
The bottom line is that, you know, not to toot my own horn...but I'm a pretty funny guy, nice, generally pretty likable...and I have almost zero luck with girls. I mean it's fuckin pathetic. So I guess it would stand to reason that confidence is my problem. That's one thing I certainly do not have, and how can you go about faking something like that? You either have it or you don't. With all the good qualities I do have, am I just cursed by my lack of confidence? I mean, is there ever gonna be a day where I find a girl that can look past me being kinda sheepish and really insecure? Is it that much of a death sentence? I mean, ladies, what IS it about confidence? I don't necessarily understand what's so attractive about it. But if that's what it is then I feel like I'm doomed.
The bottom line is that, you know, not to toot my own horn...but I'm a pretty funny guy, nice, generally pretty likable...and I have almost zero luck with girls. I mean it's fuckin pathetic. So I guess it would stand to reason that confidence is my problem. That's one thing I certainly do not have, and how can you go about faking something like that? You either have it or you don't. With all the good qualities I do have, am I just cursed by my lack of confidence? I mean, is there ever gonna be a day where I find a girl that can look past me being kinda sheepish and really insecure? Is it that much of a death sentence? I mean, ladies, what IS it about confidence? I don't necessarily understand what's so attractive about it. But if that's what it is then I feel like I'm doomed.