The funny thing, most of my ex's made the first move on me, what makes it even more funny, is that practically every single one of my ex's were either promiscuious, or just plain psycho. Truth is, most "normal" women expect you to make the first move on them. The problem with that is that if you were to make the first move constantly, you never know when you'll hit on the wrong girl that will flip out on you and falsely accuse you of sexual harrassment, which I'm personally paranoid about, considering that everybody automatically believes the woman, even if she's blantatly lying. I've heard of cases where a man would just casually ask a girl out on a date, and the girl would flip out and accuse him of "sexually harrassing" her, and basically ruined his life and reputation. So, most of the time, I don't even bother making the first move, simply because of that fear of being falsely accused of something I didn't do. Hell, I don't even bother with dating anymore period, and probably won't until this third-wave feminism bubble eventually bursts.