phant0m
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Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
phant0m said:Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
samba101 said:Nah not really, don't really know never considered going out with a divorced guy with kids. Though I had a partner for 10 years who had a daughter. Kind of silly of me really I guess it's no different then guys who have left a relationship.
phant0m said:Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
phant0m said:Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
EveWasFramed said:phant0m said:Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
I'm not quite sure how you meant that...
Are you saying that women who are 35+ with two divorces and two or more children only want "decent dudes" or are you saying that women 35+ only want decent dudes with two or more children and divorces?
If you meant it the first way...well, duh, of course they want "decent" men. Who wouldn't want someone "decent" for a partner, no matter their number of children or divorces?
As for the second, it makes little sense to me, and considering I'm over 35, I would know.
In the end it doesn't really matter how you meant it though, because you're using a pretty wide brush stroke when painting women over 35. I think it sounds like maybe you've run into a few who have displayed certain behaviors, and you base your opinions on those few women. I also read another of your posts, where you generalized Americans, as judgemental.
This is a public forum. Please try not to generalize overly much - people tend to find it annoying or offensive. Having said that, I do understand that we base our views on our life experiences, so maybe you have a reason to think the way you do. But, at least have an open mind and realize that you can't judge the entire population, on the actions of a few.
Welcome to the forum, by the way.
Sanal said:I think he meant
"women doesnot want decent dudes when they are in their twenties and only want bad boys at the time. Once they are 35 and maybe 2 kids and divorced from the bad boy, they want a decent man. Like till they realize that bad boys cant really give them a good family, they dont need a decent guy. Comes to the old say 'nice guys finish last'"
phant0m said:Sanal said:I think he meant
"women doesnot want decent dudes when they are in their twenties and only want bad boys at the time. Once they are 35 and maybe 2 kids and divorced from the bad boy, they want a decent man. Like till they realize that bad boys cant really give them a good family, they dont need a decent guy.
yeah thats what I meant, sorry about the post, i was frustrated last night, feel free to ignore it if it pisses you off :/
EveWasFramed said:phant0m said:Sanal said:I think he meant
"women doesnot want decent dudes when they are in their twenties and only want bad boys at the time. Once they are 35 and maybe 2 kids and divorced from the bad boy, they want a decent man. Like till they realize that bad boys cant really give them a good family, they dont need a decent guy.
yeah thats what I meant, sorry about the post, i was frustrated last night, feel free to ignore it if it pisses you off :/
That's called learning from your mistakes, man. lmao
Sometimes, you have to date/marry a few losers, to know what a quality man is when you see one, lol.
I'm sorry that you are frustrated, Phant0m.
phant0m said:Seems to me women only want decent dudes when they have had 1 or 2 divorces, are 35+, and have 2 or more kids. I know I'm generalizing, but I'd say many are like that.
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