You said you cant change and dont wanna change....
So Im just reinforcing your self hatred
Errr....wtf do you mean?
U wrote about happiness.
And you said you dont see yourself being happy or that's not going to happen.
Thats what you said in your own words.
So...how in the fresia did you get from that into jungmental bullshit?
That's crazy man.....
Err...since I agreed with you...Now you wanna go and wanna be happy and honeysuckle.
Make up your mind FFS.lol
look dude...
Your leanding how to filter out stuff and refocusing.
It's not what I wrote it's how you process it.
You can trun it inward and using it against yourself.
Or you can simply just filter what I say out...just toss it out if it's making you feel bad or negative
about yourself.
At the sametime you must also learn how to filter out or toss out those negative
inner vioce or thoughts about yourself
Then you simply intuitively refocus your attention to positive things about yourself.
Over and over again. We live in accordance to what we belief.
What we think and feel over and over again are our beliefs.
The negative messages that you had heard or processed from your life experince
are stored in your sunconsious mind. Those thoughts and feeling gets triggers
sometimes through associations. Our subconsious mind dosnt decifer the data.
It is up to us to consiously filter out data from our subconsious mind (the negative stuff)
As we also filter out negative data from outside sources ( other people )
Now simply use the same process to help you. Feed your mind with positive messages
about yourself. Over time this will also get store into your long term memory bank.
Positve message will pop into your head. Happy thoughts....
See yourself as being happy. Feed that into your mind daily.
We begin to see things differently. We begin to feel differently.
We begin to act differently. We begin to live differently.
This is how we change from the inside out. Lasting positve changes.