cryingcloud
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I've recently come up with the acceptance of not fitting in anywhere. I don't mean to come off as jaded, but I'm now a freshmen in college, had a group of friends....and lost them. I don't even know why. Why doesn't anyone understand me? Why don't they just accept me for who I am? I felt as if I was being excluded, so I confronted one of them to see what was wrong. She said there's nothing wrong, and I left the room for a moment and left my phone there. I put it on record, and when I re-played it....they were talking bad about me... They are trying to exclude me...on purpose! I don't get it, I'm a pretty decent person, or I try to be. I'm quirky, but I'm a good listener and very loyal. I was invisible in high school, and I was so happy to have a group of friends, that I thought cared about me....I would love to know what I did wrong, so I can make it up some how....they insist it's all in my mind, but I'm not dumb! Something's going on! I'm so sick of this! I deserve friends too! Nothing in my life has been pleasant, why can't at least ONE good thing happen to me??? On top of that, I lost ANOTHER boy. It's just icing on top of the frickin' cake! ANOTHER boy comes into my life and finds SOOOMMMMMEEE reason to walk out....after 2 weeks of knowing me, and making me think we actually have a chance to be together. Why am I the kind of person who has such troubles building relationships? I'm 19 years old! I feel like a failure when I cry to my mom about this, because she would always tell me how college is the best time of your life, and the people you meet there are friends for life. I don't see that happening to me at all....I don't know how I came to be this person...All I want is to be accepted, not surrounded by friends...I just want at least one....just one....to have more would be wonderful...but, one would be enough too. Life is my biggest bully. It leaves me feeling....hopeless and defeated.