edamame721
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I've been trying to meet up with a friend and a friendly acquaintance for a while now. We finally said we'd meet for Halloween and I did research and even sent links. No one answered and when I went on Facebook, it turns out they had jetsetted to another state and city for a marathon. One of them lost their phone. Neither of them mentioned their plans or told me what had happened.
My friend used to be more responsive but he's been in a constant distracted mood for a long time now. I thought he was even depressed, so I didn't push. He'd say yes to things only to back out with excuses like he didn't feel like it. I'd become worried he was isolating himself (he'd send me random texts, sometimes complaints) but then I'd shortly find out through Facebook he went partying or traveled.
The other person stood me up once because she was tired. We made multiple attempts to hang out, but I was very wary about saying yes to anything unless it was something I wanted to do. When enough time passed without her answering, I just let her know I would go myself.
I feel like I've tried a lot with these people. I know they have their own lives but I feel like I've been patient. I want to give up. I feel constantly undervalued because no one will take the initiative with me, showing they want to and will spend time with me. I still do activities on my own, but now, I barely ask anyone to join me because of repeated rejection.
My friend used to be more responsive but he's been in a constant distracted mood for a long time now. I thought he was even depressed, so I didn't push. He'd say yes to things only to back out with excuses like he didn't feel like it. I'd become worried he was isolating himself (he'd send me random texts, sometimes complaints) but then I'd shortly find out through Facebook he went partying or traveled.
The other person stood me up once because she was tired. We made multiple attempts to hang out, but I was very wary about saying yes to anything unless it was something I wanted to do. When enough time passed without her answering, I just let her know I would go myself.
I feel like I've tried a lot with these people. I know they have their own lives but I feel like I've been patient. I want to give up. I feel constantly undervalued because no one will take the initiative with me, showing they want to and will spend time with me. I still do activities on my own, but now, I barely ask anyone to join me because of repeated rejection.