Haven
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For those who are not aware my birthday was the 9th of February. I’m 21 now friends and family called me. I didn’t get a call from my father. My father and my mother are no longer together. My father often calls my mother to spend time with her but my rejects him. My mother brought my father to court and made him pay child support. This was long ago. My Mother made it clear she wants nothing to do with him but he calls her often. He acts as if I don’t exist he never calls me on birthdays or holidays. The last time I seen him was my High school graduation in 2008 last time I spoke on the phone was last father’s day I called him. We talked for under a minute he told me he was busy at that moment and he would call me back when he was done and I never spoke to him again. I guess you can say I’m still waiting for that call. He calls my mother often. I use to try to talk to him often. But it always seems he doesn’t want to talk to me. My mother tells me that she asks him to call me he tells her he will but never does.
I most likely should have given up on the idea of having a relationship with him years ago. His treatment of me is nothing new. My father called my mother earlier today so I’ve been reflecting on our relationship all day. It's just some thing for me to think about.
I most likely should have given up on the idea of having a relationship with him years ago. His treatment of me is nothing new. My father called my mother earlier today so I’ve been reflecting on our relationship all day. It's just some thing for me to think about.