Pheenix
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Hahaha, I know what you are thinking, another idiot who tries to exterminate his individuality to fit in.
This isn't what I mean.
We anti-social folks haven't picked up the social algorithms other people have. It's cool, it makes sense. Since we haven't been very social, we don't have the same relationship to sociality that other people have. Sort of like a new music-fan meeting people that all know every single concert venue in town and know all the local bands personally. Is there something we can do about this? I mean, again, it makes sense, and it doesn't mean we are stupid people, but we don't think the same ways socially. We don't have the same ideas of what you go out and do, when to make a joke, when not to, when to leave the establishment and when not to, when to throw a party and when not to, etc.
Is there a way to learn these things, or do you just have to ease yourself in with the people who can accept you until you meet up with the others mentally?
This isn't what I mean.
We anti-social folks haven't picked up the social algorithms other people have. It's cool, it makes sense. Since we haven't been very social, we don't have the same relationship to sociality that other people have. Sort of like a new music-fan meeting people that all know every single concert venue in town and know all the local bands personally. Is there something we can do about this? I mean, again, it makes sense, and it doesn't mean we are stupid people, but we don't think the same ways socially. We don't have the same ideas of what you go out and do, when to make a joke, when not to, when to leave the establishment and when not to, when to throw a party and when not to, etc.
Is there a way to learn these things, or do you just have to ease yourself in with the people who can accept you until you meet up with the others mentally?