Im a 19 year old guy, attending college and living at home. I lack self confidence and suffer from depression. I cant say there is any reason for me to lack self confidence. I dont want to sound cocky but i spend nearly everyday in the gym lifting and have once been on a poster for my local gym haha. Im not proud of that really.
People tend to like me, they think im a really happy person full of energy. Im not. Im sad, for what reason? i dont know.
I cope with it however. I go through my days and seem happy enough, nothing excites me though.
Anyway last weekend i had a few friends over, we just hing out watched tv talked and played some games. Late into the night i txted a girl and asked if she wanted to come over. Its a girl ive known for awhile but never had feelings for her, never even really talk to her. she txts me a lot but we never hang out. Anyways she came over and we drank some vodka together while my friends passed out. We decided to get a bit reckless and mess around. No sex. i said no, she was drunk-ish and i feel horrible if i do and then have that person regret it.
This went on from 4am-10:30am she then feel asleep and i went to the gym. no sleep for me but i wasnt too tired. When i came back we all sat and watched tv then i took everyone home later. I didnt feel anything for her then, in fact i was looking forward to getting everyone home. Now a few days later i do have feelings. I already miss that night and just want to relive it.. Thats all i can think about, nothing has made me happy sense and i find myself having a hard time doing anything without wanting to cry.. what the hell is wrong with me.
I should just be happy, but instead its left me more sad than i was before that night. I just want my heart to stop hurting for no reason.
My friends dont understand, they just think im talking. I dont even fully understand, i just want to be content with what i have.
People tend to like me, they think im a really happy person full of energy. Im not. Im sad, for what reason? i dont know.
I cope with it however. I go through my days and seem happy enough, nothing excites me though.
Anyway last weekend i had a few friends over, we just hing out watched tv talked and played some games. Late into the night i txted a girl and asked if she wanted to come over. Its a girl ive known for awhile but never had feelings for her, never even really talk to her. she txts me a lot but we never hang out. Anyways she came over and we drank some vodka together while my friends passed out. We decided to get a bit reckless and mess around. No sex. i said no, she was drunk-ish and i feel horrible if i do and then have that person regret it.
This went on from 4am-10:30am she then feel asleep and i went to the gym. no sleep for me but i wasnt too tired. When i came back we all sat and watched tv then i took everyone home later. I didnt feel anything for her then, in fact i was looking forward to getting everyone home. Now a few days later i do have feelings. I already miss that night and just want to relive it.. Thats all i can think about, nothing has made me happy sense and i find myself having a hard time doing anything without wanting to cry.. what the hell is wrong with me.
I should just be happy, but instead its left me more sad than i was before that night. I just want my heart to stop hurting for no reason.
My friends dont understand, they just think im talking. I dont even fully understand, i just want to be content with what i have.