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I'm real nervous. The two guys I'm going to the bars and casinos with, one I know from school and he has approach anxiety so he won't talk to girls in public, but claims that he's only looking for "Catholic" girls which I know is a ******* load of horse honeysuckle. The other guy I actually met from the incel forum I'm on, and he's really hateful against women and says that my face is so ugly that no matter what I do, not even the ugliest fat chick would ever be interested in me unless I get plastic surgery.
I'm really nervous about the bar atmosphere. I'm afraid that the bad boys or wangsters will try to pick a fight with me if I talk to girls, or if I talk to too many girls than they will report me to the bouncer and get me handcuffed or kicked out or some honeysuckle.
Any ideas on how to talk to girls in a bar? I've never been in one before, but I turn 21 tomorrow, and it's a very high anxiety situation for me. Any suggestions? What should the opener be? When should I say something funny? How can I make myself smile if the situation is really scary and unnerving for me?
Also, women, please don't derail this thread by guilt-tripping me. Thanks.
I'm really nervous about the bar atmosphere. I'm afraid that the bad boys or wangsters will try to pick a fight with me if I talk to girls, or if I talk to too many girls than they will report me to the bouncer and get me handcuffed or kicked out or some honeysuckle.
Any ideas on how to talk to girls in a bar? I've never been in one before, but I turn 21 tomorrow, and it's a very high anxiety situation for me. Any suggestions? What should the opener be? When should I say something funny? How can I make myself smile if the situation is really scary and unnerving for me?
Also, women, please don't derail this thread by guilt-tripping me. Thanks.