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Yeah. Some people say that for every single person out there, there is that one other person just waiting to be found by the former, making the former's life 'whole'- a.ka. "The Destined One"- the husband or wife to be. My thought in regards to this, perhaps since I myself have never been on a date, let alone in a relationship, is that it's nothing but a 'well-to-do-hogwash' kind of advice offered by those who have been more successful in this department to those who are wandering if they will ever form any sort of meaningful contact with the opposite sex in this lifetime (like I myself always do), giving them erroneous hope that they can just carry on with their lives as they always have and that one destined person will just drop in, from nowhere seemingly. This of course doesn't make any sense to me and it always leaves me wondering as to what I should do differently in the future so I can finally meet someone who isn't just a short-term crush, but from whom I can draw out some sort of relationship.
-My whole life, in fact, has basically been nothing more but crushes which never went anywhere. As time would pass, I'd stop liking the person, find someone else and start thinking about them, and the cycle would repeat eventually. My longest and most recent crush, which went on for almost a whole year, was on a girl who basically every guy wanted. She had a whole legion of guy friends and would be jumping from one relationship to another. After hanging out one on one with her, I got the impression, which later proved false, that she was into me- even though she was attached to someone already at the time. Well one day, since I had her number and me being pretty lonely back then, I decided to give her a call- maybe to ask her out for coffee or something. Well I called her and she didn't answer so over the next days, I made two more calls, leaving a voice mail on the last one. Of course she never called me back and when I finally saw her again, as it happened during a gathering with my friends at one of my friend's literary workshop downtown, she seemed really shocked to see me, perhaps seeing as I came at the very last minute but also because of the more obvious reason, and got that apprehensive look on her face which I no doubt understood what it meant..
Anyway, I'm not too sure where I was going with that..
Any comments and/or stories like such?
-My whole life, in fact, has basically been nothing more but crushes which never went anywhere. As time would pass, I'd stop liking the person, find someone else and start thinking about them, and the cycle would repeat eventually. My longest and most recent crush, which went on for almost a whole year, was on a girl who basically every guy wanted. She had a whole legion of guy friends and would be jumping from one relationship to another. After hanging out one on one with her, I got the impression, which later proved false, that she was into me- even though she was attached to someone already at the time. Well one day, since I had her number and me being pretty lonely back then, I decided to give her a call- maybe to ask her out for coffee or something. Well I called her and she didn't answer so over the next days, I made two more calls, leaving a voice mail on the last one. Of course she never called me back and when I finally saw her again, as it happened during a gathering with my friends at one of my friend's literary workshop downtown, she seemed really shocked to see me, perhaps seeing as I came at the very last minute but also because of the more obvious reason, and got that apprehensive look on her face which I no doubt understood what it meant..
Anyway, I'm not too sure where I was going with that..
Any comments and/or stories like such?