Ignis
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's different to everyone.
Everybody has different tastes, so you cannot for any reason say that you're unattractive. You WILL be attractive out there to someone.
Can you honestly tell me that out of 2 odd billion people, not a single one could think you're pretty? Garbage.
Besides, I think that in todays society we're a little less focused on looks and a little more focused on personality. At least, I am.
The past few girls I've been attracted to, haven't been physical attractions (Maybe a little bit.) it's been because of their personalities. It's because I can spend hours, upon hours talking to them and I find that a lot better than a girl who aesthetically, looks very pleasing.
I can understand WHY you'd want to seek validation through the sex industry. I can tell you however, that it is probably the wrong move.
These people will not give you the validation you want. I know you feel as though you have to be noticed, even if it means giving your body to someone else, or being paid for sex... But after all of that is said and done, you'll still feel empty.
Why?
Because there's no EMOTIONAL attachment involved. No one is telling you "I love you" or "You're important to me" they're getting their primal urges fulfilled, then leaving. If it was not you, they'd happily pick someone else.
Everybody has different tastes, so you cannot for any reason say that you're unattractive. You WILL be attractive out there to someone.
Can you honestly tell me that out of 2 odd billion people, not a single one could think you're pretty? Garbage.
Besides, I think that in todays society we're a little less focused on looks and a little more focused on personality. At least, I am.
The past few girls I've been attracted to, haven't been physical attractions (Maybe a little bit.) it's been because of their personalities. It's because I can spend hours, upon hours talking to them and I find that a lot better than a girl who aesthetically, looks very pleasing.
I can understand WHY you'd want to seek validation through the sex industry. I can tell you however, that it is probably the wrong move.
These people will not give you the validation you want. I know you feel as though you have to be noticed, even if it means giving your body to someone else, or being paid for sex... But after all of that is said and done, you'll still feel empty.
Why?
Because there's no EMOTIONAL attachment involved. No one is telling you "I love you" or "You're important to me" they're getting their primal urges fulfilled, then leaving. If it was not you, they'd happily pick someone else.