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[Grey]

I love your avatar i was just sat here watching it, and its nice that you'd do research for people

 

[LoneKiller]

I love your avatar i was just sat here watching it, and its nice that you'd do research for people

Thank you Grey.
I get just as much help from the other members as I give to them. It's
a cool thing. Welcome to the forum!

God Bless.
LK

 

[LoneKiller]

I thought that this list might help those looking for some great books on various aspects of "Self-Help". They aren't downloads. They're just a solid list awesome books. Hope they help.

"The Top 100 Best Self-Help Books of All Time"


http://selfhelp.fm/

 

[Parabolani]

'how to win friends and influence people' the results.
*link removed*

As humorous as that may be, please don't link to file sharing sites of copyrighted material, thanks. ~ Sci-Fi

 

[LoneKiller]

I gotta be honest man. I'm a little hesitant to download. I hope you understand.

 

[blackdot]

Unless it's a free book, you shouldn't link to sites to illegally download something.

 

[LoneKiller]

It was still kind of you to try and help though.

 

[LoneKiller]

Hope this helps.

HOW TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
http://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Healthy-Relationship


5 SECRETS TO A SUCCESSFUL LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archiv...uccessful-long-term-relationship-or-marriage/


10 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/10-keys-to-a-successful-romantic-relationship.html


DR.PHIL ADVICE ON A GOOD MARRIAGE
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/53


RELATIONSHIP RULES
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200410/relationship-rules


HOW TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP IN 2012
http://thoughtcatalog.com/2012/how-to-have-a-successful-relationship-in-2012/


BUILDING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP FROM THE START
http://cmhc.utexas.edu/healthyrelationships.html


8 INGREDIENTS FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Williams6.html


10 WAYS TO MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE GREAT
http://www.aish.com/f/m/10_Ways_to_Make_a_Good_Marriage_Great.html


10 TIPS FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
http://www.relationshipjourney.com/relationshiptips.html


7 CHARACTERISTICS OF GOOD RELATIONSHIPS
http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/


DR.PHIL MAINTAINING A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/142


THe 10 "B'S" OF A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-fitness/201112/the-10-bs-successful-relationship

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HOW TO HAVE A GREAT FIRST DATE
http://jezebel.com/5681614/social-minefield-how-to-have-a-great-first-date


HOW TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION ON A FIRST DATE
http://futurescopes.com/advice/52/how-make-good-impression-first-date


HOW TO HAVE A GOOD CONVERSATION ON A DATE
http://www.tsbmag.com/2006/08/05/great-dating-conversation/


10 WAYS TO BE A GREAT DATE
http://www.lhj.com/relationships/marriage/romance/10-ways-to-be-a-great-date/


HOW TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL FIRST DATE AT THE MOVIES
http://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Successful-First-Date-at-the-Movies-(Guys)


TIPS TO ROCK YOUR FIRST DATE
http://www.seventeen.com/love/advice/first-date-tips


HOW TO PICK A GOOD PLACE TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE
http://www.wikihow.com/Pick-a-Good-Place-to-Go-on-Your-First-Date


HOW TO HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH A DATE
http://www.lassosoft.com/LDC-2012-How-to-have-a-good-time-with-a-Date


WHAT MAKES A GOOD FIRST DATE?
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11633231.aspx


GOOD DATE QUESTIONS TO HELP THE CONVERSATION FLOW SMOOTHLY
http://www.my-dating-advice.com/good-date-questions.html


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[LoneKiller]

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[perfanoff]

Let them roll in their own dirt. Overpopulated, undereducated, reeking of corruption. If these guys take power, the gap between the westernized world and them will grow even further.

They really wish they were the hegemons of the world instead of USA but the fact stands is they're not able to because their economy, development, social capital is lagging by a lot. No amount of burning down embassies and murdering people will help them achieve their goals. Look at what what USA and Russia have achieved by violent acts - it always, always drags the country down.

 

[LoneKiller]

Hi All!

Do you ever think about something that you are going to say to someone and the words come out wrong, causing confusion or misunderstandings? Here's an example:

Last week I bumped into an old friend and his wife. They had a baby with them. I didn't know they had one because we haven't hung out for years. Anyway, the baby was as cute as a button. In attempts to compliment them and be nice, I said to them that their baby was a good looking kid.

Tyson(old friend) looked at me with a confused and angry look for a few seconds and then said thanks. I was getting the impression that maybe he thought that I was some sort of sexual predator, when that couldn't be further from the truth.

When I think one thing, and say another, it causes others to misunderstand me, which can sometimes lead to trouble. Do any of you ever have this problem? For me, it's so frustrating.

Godspeed.
LK

 

[ajdass1]

Aw it sucks when that happens

Personally I get this a lot... I'll have a thought in my head that I think is significant or that I want to share, but when I try to write it or explain it to someone, I'm suddenly incapable of articulating it even though I was doing it just fine in my head only a little while ago. WTF is that about? Any neuroscientists on the forum who can explain this for us?

 

[Montreal Skye]

I used to always speak too quickly...it's like my brain couldn't keep up with my mouth (or keyboard!)...I knew what I wanted to convey, but never chose the proper words, phrases or tones. Then I'd immediately say "Oh, I actually meant"...it bothered me so much because I know I was confusing people, and to some point angering them. It became a big problem at work back in the day.

I had to train myself to stop speaking so fast and to stop for a moment before saying something. I developed that filter, but it took a lot of practice. I'm lucky in a way because I speak both English and French, so my method was to try and translate into French what I was thinking in English. It forced me to choose the right words for the situation.

I still say things I shouldn't...I was reminded of that yesterday and to be honest, it didn't even dawn on me...like, I always say "I'm sorry" for nearly everything where I have no need for apology.

The old no-filter speak sneaks out too sometimes, under high stress and anxiety. I've said many things I don't mean when I'm feeling panic. Now that, I'm not sure how to fix.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I said to them that their baby was a good looking kid.

Yeah, that might come off wrong. That normally isn't something you hear people say about babies. Usually it's cute, adorable, something goo goo like.

Typically I'm so afraid of saying the wrong thing or it coming out the wrong way I won't say it.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Live and learn, and don't take other people's misunderstandings against yourself.

 

[Okiedokes]

Oh yeah... I stop and think about it and I correct myself right away, or say something extra as to explain what I meant. lol.

 

[BrokenInside]

Oh yeah!! It does happen but luckily not too often.I try to explain what i actually meant to say. Sometimes people understand, sometimes they don't.

 

[LoneKiller]

Thoughts?

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[Barbaloot]

http://www.addictinginfo.org/2012/09/18/who-pays-taxes-mitt/ this link provides an explanation of the "47%"

 

[Gutted]

I think that this guy must be afraid to shower naked in his own house without there being a hidden camera somewhere. Alas, he sounds like a ****** from what he and others tell me.