Bebeskii
Well-known member
Hello guys.
I've just wanted to ask if you guys take it serious when someone behaves rude or mean towards you. I feel that loneliness made me very insecure. I texted someone and that person did not reply. I invited someone to go out for a cinema and that person was busy ( i know he is not busy ). I asked a simple question from my classmate and she didn't answer, totally ignoring me, because she was too busy enjoying others' company. Even if the slightest thing go wrong I'm too quick to conclude I'm hopeless and useless. Made a mistake in social situation and could not stop beating up myself and thinking over and over. I get easily dishearted or angry when someone pushes me away or say something negative. It seems normal people ( people with no loneliness) are totally unaware of this. They seem more invulnerable and mentally stronger than me. Do you guys feel the same? is it just me who is very insecure and vulnerable ?
I've just wanted to ask if you guys take it serious when someone behaves rude or mean towards you. I feel that loneliness made me very insecure. I texted someone and that person did not reply. I invited someone to go out for a cinema and that person was busy ( i know he is not busy ). I asked a simple question from my classmate and she didn't answer, totally ignoring me, because she was too busy enjoying others' company. Even if the slightest thing go wrong I'm too quick to conclude I'm hopeless and useless. Made a mistake in social situation and could not stop beating up myself and thinking over and over. I get easily dishearted or angry when someone pushes me away or say something negative. It seems normal people ( people with no loneliness) are totally unaware of this. They seem more invulnerable and mentally stronger than me. Do you guys feel the same? is it just me who is very insecure and vulnerable ?