The Dougler
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Ill just jump into it and describe myself a bit and my situation. Im 19, in my 2nd year of university. I see myself as someone who has a quiet confidence that most people dont pick up on until they try to patronize me cause "Im so quiet" or because "I never talk." I have little to no experience with girls. Not the biggest deal in the world but I am getting older and everyday it just eats a little more at me.
Not that Im afraid of girls or anything, I just do not pursue them or initiate conversations with them....usually. Which I think is my problem.
Im pretty much one of those guys who just goes about his business each day at school never meeting anyone new, especially girls. In my freetime I usually try to just take care of myself...exercise, try to eat healthy. I read a bit, but mostly just get caught up in my own thoughts and try to figure myself out.
Out of my friends, im the only one who is still a virgin, which sucks because when I compare myself to them, I see myself as being better in almost everyway...i do not have a huge ego, but I do think most people can relate with me when I say I compare myself and my qualities to others and make judgements.....just recently my best friend who has no problem getting a girls attention and was one the most popular kids in my highschool told me how much he looks up to me and how I influence him... Like physically I look good, Im athletic, I have a strong sense of who I am, Im mature, Im in university, I can actually have intellectual discussions (this one never comes up), Im smart enough to know that I dont know everything and have a lot to learn.
its depressing, a lot of people like me. I like myself . However, girls do not. I like to think of myself as being a well rounded individual and yet, when it comes to girls I suck. I don't know, maybe I should actually just attempt to pursue girls, but I dont even know where to begin.
Getting older, Im just worried Ill never move on and get to experience my life with girls in it. Ive already missed out in highschool and now half of my university career is almost gone. I wonder if I have to change or if eventually ill get lucky and meet a great girl.
Not that Im afraid of girls or anything, I just do not pursue them or initiate conversations with them....usually. Which I think is my problem.
Im pretty much one of those guys who just goes about his business each day at school never meeting anyone new, especially girls. In my freetime I usually try to just take care of myself...exercise, try to eat healthy. I read a bit, but mostly just get caught up in my own thoughts and try to figure myself out.
Out of my friends, im the only one who is still a virgin, which sucks because when I compare myself to them, I see myself as being better in almost everyway...i do not have a huge ego, but I do think most people can relate with me when I say I compare myself and my qualities to others and make judgements.....just recently my best friend who has no problem getting a girls attention and was one the most popular kids in my highschool told me how much he looks up to me and how I influence him... Like physically I look good, Im athletic, I have a strong sense of who I am, Im mature, Im in university, I can actually have intellectual discussions (this one never comes up), Im smart enough to know that I dont know everything and have a lot to learn.
its depressing, a lot of people like me. I like myself . However, girls do not. I like to think of myself as being a well rounded individual and yet, when it comes to girls I suck. I don't know, maybe I should actually just attempt to pursue girls, but I dont even know where to begin.
Getting older, Im just worried Ill never move on and get to experience my life with girls in it. Ive already missed out in highschool and now half of my university career is almost gone. I wonder if I have to change or if eventually ill get lucky and meet a great girl.
