Question for those of you who have no trouble being social, but who find difficult to make close friends:
how does that happen? Can you identify something that goes wrong in the process?
I meet so many people, we seem to get along, have things to talk about,
we meet once or twice in social settings, maybe even once or twice just us, and then everything stops, there is the occasional invite for a birthday or a social event but no talk, no exchange anymore.
Does this happen to you? Why do you think that happens?
Personally I am torn between the possibilities that I look too needy or instead that I somehow keep a distance because I don't trust the other person immediately. And also, sometimes you just discover that you don't have that much in common, of course.
I would like to hear other people's reflections
how does that happen? Can you identify something that goes wrong in the process?
I meet so many people, we seem to get along, have things to talk about,
we meet once or twice in social settings, maybe even once or twice just us, and then everything stops, there is the occasional invite for a birthday or a social event but no talk, no exchange anymore.
Does this happen to you? Why do you think that happens?
Personally I am torn between the possibilities that I look too needy or instead that I somehow keep a distance because I don't trust the other person immediately. And also, sometimes you just discover that you don't have that much in common, of course.
I would like to hear other people's reflections