Triple Bogey
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It became clear when I was quite young that women wouldn't approach me or I would meet somebody easy. Not like my brother or most of the people I grew up with. So I sort of evolved these 'tactics' over the years.
Any woman who caught my eye, who I found attractive or liked the look of, I would try the following. Talk to her, be friendly, nice, ask her questions, be interested in what she had to say, tell her about myself. Not to much though, I was always conscious of her feelings. didn't want to annoy or get on her nerves.
After a while of this, my plan was to build it up, talk more, become friends and then it would be natural to ask her out.
That was my plan. It's never worked EVER !
Most of the time I don't get to the ask out stage because I don't see any interest. After some lovely conversations, the next day the woman would either ignore me or wouldn't be that interested in talking. It was always one step forward and 2 back. Some I did ask out and I got rejected every time. Some laughed at me, some were nice.
It hurt back then, doesn't so much now. I sort of know what's going to happen anyway. This recent one, it's been 9 months, complete waste of time.
Don't know what else to do !
Any woman who caught my eye, who I found attractive or liked the look of, I would try the following. Talk to her, be friendly, nice, ask her questions, be interested in what she had to say, tell her about myself. Not to much though, I was always conscious of her feelings. didn't want to annoy or get on her nerves.
After a while of this, my plan was to build it up, talk more, become friends and then it would be natural to ask her out.
That was my plan. It's never worked EVER !
Most of the time I don't get to the ask out stage because I don't see any interest. After some lovely conversations, the next day the woman would either ignore me or wouldn't be that interested in talking. It was always one step forward and 2 back. Some I did ask out and I got rejected every time. Some laughed at me, some were nice.
It hurt back then, doesn't so much now. I sort of know what's going to happen anyway. This recent one, it's been 9 months, complete waste of time.
Don't know what else to do !