cool_breeze
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Hello. I feel that I am not clicking in life. I'm 28. I only have 1 main thread on here. The outcome was that people basically suggested that I take some action.
I don't have any severe problems I don't think. I'm in pretty good shape, went to college, most people like me, I'm seen as pretty smart.
Then why do I feel alone? I've never really been in love.
My problems are mostly finding a purpose in life. I'm fairly good at a lot of stuff. Maybe just need to focus on something?! I feel that this has been going on a long time. Hardly anything seems to really be taking root for me.
It seems like everyone knows what they're doing in life. I've hardly ever felt that kind of purpose. I have interests but that's not enough.
I feel really alone. I don't even know if this is the right website for me. A lot of people on here seem to have worse problems. But in a way this almost makes me feel worse. It's not like I'm an alcoholic, or disabled, or bad looking, or something like that. In fact there's nothing really wrong with me.
I just feel so unfulfilled. I don't feel like I've had a lot of opportunities in life. My family has told me I need to make opportunities.
I really wish I had a devoted girlfriend. I can get dates but I hardly ever feel a real feeling of connection with someone. I met a girl when I was traveling awhile back that I liked a lot and we used to talk a lot online after that (she lives in another country). She had to move for work and she's hardly ever online now.
I just feel alone. I feel like if I was with the girl I met traveling we could support each other and take care of each other and do almost anything. I feel like a plant that's not being nourished. I also feel like I'm letting people down. People who know me and meet me think I could be and will be doing great things. I could grow into a mighty oak tree, but it's going to take love. I feel like I'm being left out in life.
Am I ever going to blossom?
I don't have any severe problems I don't think. I'm in pretty good shape, went to college, most people like me, I'm seen as pretty smart.
Then why do I feel alone? I've never really been in love.
My problems are mostly finding a purpose in life. I'm fairly good at a lot of stuff. Maybe just need to focus on something?! I feel that this has been going on a long time. Hardly anything seems to really be taking root for me.
It seems like everyone knows what they're doing in life. I've hardly ever felt that kind of purpose. I have interests but that's not enough.
I feel really alone. I don't even know if this is the right website for me. A lot of people on here seem to have worse problems. But in a way this almost makes me feel worse. It's not like I'm an alcoholic, or disabled, or bad looking, or something like that. In fact there's nothing really wrong with me.
I just feel so unfulfilled. I don't feel like I've had a lot of opportunities in life. My family has told me I need to make opportunities.
I really wish I had a devoted girlfriend. I can get dates but I hardly ever feel a real feeling of connection with someone. I met a girl when I was traveling awhile back that I liked a lot and we used to talk a lot online after that (she lives in another country). She had to move for work and she's hardly ever online now.
I just feel alone. I feel like if I was with the girl I met traveling we could support each other and take care of each other and do almost anything. I feel like a plant that's not being nourished. I also feel like I'm letting people down. People who know me and meet me think I could be and will be doing great things. I could grow into a mighty oak tree, but it's going to take love. I feel like I'm being left out in life.
Am I ever going to blossom?