MentatsGhoul
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I've gotten a bit better at "socialising". Making small talk, jokes, etc. More people have started to respond positively to me lately, as opposed to just shutting me down every time I open my mouth. And I am actually good looking, definitely for my area. I'm not gonna claim any girl "likes" me without having them having explicitly told me so (or obviously tried to hook up with me or something), but some definitely seem, I don't know, welcoming, for lack of a better word. Obviously some are just being friendly, maybe even all of them, but there's a possibility that I have a chance at least, I think.
But, nothing ever happens, nothing has ever happened. Like we'll laugh, exchange lots of looks and smiles and... that's always it. I guess, I just don't really know how to flirt? At least without coming off as a creep. I think the more "aggressive" girls avoid me, because despite being much more sociable than I used to be, I'm still a laid back, kind of distant guy, so no girl has ever made a move on me, at least not obviously. And, I don't know how to flirt without coming off as creepy. Honestly, I've developed too many trust issues and been hurt too much, so it's a bad idea for me to look for a relationship, but, it would be nice to at least be able to feel like someone is attracted to me and maybe go on a few dates for the experience. I just have zero idea how to make it happen. It seems to come so naturally to everyone else around me :/
But, nothing ever happens, nothing has ever happened. Like we'll laugh, exchange lots of looks and smiles and... that's always it. I guess, I just don't really know how to flirt? At least without coming off as a creep. I think the more "aggressive" girls avoid me, because despite being much more sociable than I used to be, I'm still a laid back, kind of distant guy, so no girl has ever made a move on me, at least not obviously. And, I don't know how to flirt without coming off as creepy. Honestly, I've developed too many trust issues and been hurt too much, so it's a bad idea for me to look for a relationship, but, it would be nice to at least be able to feel like someone is attracted to me and maybe go on a few dates for the experience. I just have zero idea how to make it happen. It seems to come so naturally to everyone else around me :/