GrannySmith111
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Okay so this isn't coming from me. It's someone else's issue. There's this website called blahtherapy where you can help random people who are venting their issues. I was bored and wanted to help people out so I decided to give it a try and came across a girl in college who is pregnant.
From what I'm hearing, there is this guy at her university who lives near her. He just broke up with someone and just wanted... sex with no strings attached. I guess she fell for him because now, she might be pregnant. She hasn't confirmed with a doctor yet but she took a pregnancy test and it was positive.
I tried to give her the best advice I could coming from a guy in high school who has never experienced something like this before 0_0
An abortion is against her beliefs. But this guy whoever he is has been encouraging her to get one. He's saying that they're both not ready for this, and it will be an unhealthy life for the child. Obviously he's right. I told her that she should be prepared to raise this kid with/without that guy. I highly doubt that he'll be there for her or care for the child like a real man would. I even heard that he's "in love" with another girl. I asked her to consider adoption too.
It's really sad for me to know that there might be a child out there growing up without a dad and not the best life. I for one, was raised by two parents who had did it the "right way". They got married and everything before they had me. EVEN THEN, my dad left us for another slut, and I've been growing up without a dad ever since 7th grade :/.
We swapped emails and I told her she could email me if she needs any help.
What do you guys think? Did I do the right thing. I know it's someone random over the internet, but I just feel so bad for the kid .
From what I'm hearing, there is this guy at her university who lives near her. He just broke up with someone and just wanted... sex with no strings attached. I guess she fell for him because now, she might be pregnant. She hasn't confirmed with a doctor yet but she took a pregnancy test and it was positive.
I tried to give her the best advice I could coming from a guy in high school who has never experienced something like this before 0_0
An abortion is against her beliefs. But this guy whoever he is has been encouraging her to get one. He's saying that they're both not ready for this, and it will be an unhealthy life for the child. Obviously he's right. I told her that she should be prepared to raise this kid with/without that guy. I highly doubt that he'll be there for her or care for the child like a real man would. I even heard that he's "in love" with another girl. I asked her to consider adoption too.
It's really sad for me to know that there might be a child out there growing up without a dad and not the best life. I for one, was raised by two parents who had did it the "right way". They got married and everything before they had me. EVEN THEN, my dad left us for another slut, and I've been growing up without a dad ever since 7th grade :/.
We swapped emails and I told her she could email me if she needs any help.
What do you guys think? Did I do the right thing. I know it's someone random over the internet, but I just feel so bad for the kid .