Frankophwn
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I don't know what I'm doing. I'm 24, I've never been in a relationship. I wouldn't even know how to ask someone out. I'm tired of hearing everyone I know talking about their own relationships, or joking about "getting some". It's gotten to the point where kids younger than me have more experience than me. I do have a full time job, and I am putting money away to eventually move out of my parents house. I just feel invisible to the oppposite sex. The few people I have talked to this about all tell me the same thing, "wait for the right person". But I'm kind of a skeptic when it comes to the idea of a soul mate or "the special someone". What if there isn't a perfect match? I feel like I'm wasting my youth. In fact, I'm kind of in love with this girl. But she has a boyfriend, and they've been together for a while. The kind of couple that will probably get married, the question just hasn't been asked yet. I've noticed that I have a pattern for fixing my adoration to innapropriate people. Part of me loves to torure myself by starting these benign flirtatious conversation with this girl, because in the back of my head I know it's never going to go anywhere. I'm scared to give people the chance to like me. How can I learn to take rejection in a healthy way, and start persuing appropriate relationships?