"Second Life" RP

[Regumika]

in my opinion stuff like SL or porn or anything else is not "normal". saying that it is normal is to say that your relationship is incomplete. and, why would you be in an incomplete relationship? why are you settling?

i think that "looking for something to fill the void" is never acceptable in a relationship stance. (hobbies are not included in this 'void'). any form of connection with someone beyond friendship is grounds for cheating. now, everyone has different opinion on where the line is. but, if someone is willing to go right up to the line every time.. then you have reason to doubt. i mean.. why confide in them? why not confide in you, their partner?

i agree with the concerns you have sena. i too will have the concern. actually. i have been the one that was left behind. twice.

 

[Senamian]

I had been told by someone I was with that he moved out. While I was at work. I stood in the yard of
an empty house that was not my home; stranded from what was supposed to be "home". My family were out of town. All of them. My phone died, I didn't have a jacket, and I also achieved a boxer's fracture from the overwhelming emotions being (unhealthily) let out on the fence (which I broke). And then I knew how truly cold and empty the literal meaning of "alone" was, with having absolutely no one there. And waking up I thought I had a nightmare and turning over to apologize, and really wanting to change for the better... No one was there. It was real; not a dream.

All because I did not bring forth my concern of someone who's stupid little messages to him, and his messages back to her.


I agree with the "line between friendship and relationship". I wouldn't cuddle a friend; hug, perhaps (even then it is usually to make them feel better in that situation rather than random times).

I agree with the fact they should be able to confide with their spouse... Whether suggestions, concerns, worries or desires... If using an outlet for these... How can the relationship work? Takes two to make it last. One cannot do it alone.