Ridin Solo
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So I just swallowed the bitter tasting "She's just not that into you" pill with this girl at work who advertises that she has no social life but doesn't want one with me... after wasting several months and suffering through a horrible bout of depression I'm starting to find the strength to get back to the drawing board.
That brings me to the thread title.... is it rational? It seems like last semester I was given a lot of "approach invitations" from different girls in my college... one actually approached and the rest gave the "look." All these girls were attractive on different levels and I'm sure they all have active social lives. The biggest roadblock in making the approach for me is thinking "They'd think I'm weird for having no friends... it's a waste of time." Is this illogical? Is it a dealbreaker to be a loner if you're attractive, confident, and funny to that person? In my mind I think most girls would be immediately turned off. It sucks because if I had the right girlfriend I think I'd have the confidence to pursue friends more aggressively. It's a shitty catch 22 situation for me. I'm not sure what feedback you guys could give but any advice would be helpful. Thanks.
That brings me to the thread title.... is it rational? It seems like last semester I was given a lot of "approach invitations" from different girls in my college... one actually approached and the rest gave the "look." All these girls were attractive on different levels and I'm sure they all have active social lives. The biggest roadblock in making the approach for me is thinking "They'd think I'm weird for having no friends... it's a waste of time." Is this illogical? Is it a dealbreaker to be a loner if you're attractive, confident, and funny to that person? In my mind I think most girls would be immediately turned off. It sucks because if I had the right girlfriend I think I'd have the confidence to pursue friends more aggressively. It's a shitty catch 22 situation for me. I'm not sure what feedback you guys could give but any advice would be helpful. Thanks.