Yeah I agree that sending an anonymous email would probably be more creepy. It was just a thought.
Actually I just got into tumblr sort of recently and noticed how people can send anonymous messages. I've never liked that idea, and I myself have never used that feature. To me it's like if you can't own up to what you say, you should have no business saying it at all.
Maybe I just go right up to the girl and just say something like: "Hi. I hope you don't think I'm a snob because I don't always say hello when I see you. " But then I don't know what to say after that. The way I naturally am is to just be direct and honest and say something like: "It is because I have social anxiety". But from what I have learned about social rules, I don't think that would be such a good thing to say.
The issue for me is NOT that I don't have the balls to talk to her. It is more so that I am an awkward person and it is not in my nature to engage people. But if that is what I decided I was going to do, I will do it. The problem is, that I will have to FORCE myself to do this, thus it will not be natural and thus I know it will not work out. I've done this a few times in the past. Forced myself to approach a girl that I liked. But that approach never worked out for me so I think it would be foolish to try it that way again.
How I got her email? Lets just say we work in different departments. When she comes to where I work, due to the nature of the job we can't really talk. When I go over to where she works, it is a public and crowded place. I am totally out of my element in such at atmosphere. An approach would only be a forced and tensed one on my part. My tension and discomfort would only also make her uncomfortable.
This is why I have been considering the email. Because it seems like it is the only option I have. Unless some miracle were to happen, but life is too short to sit around and wait for those.
Actually I just got into tumblr sort of recently and noticed how people can send anonymous messages. I've never liked that idea, and I myself have never used that feature. To me it's like if you can't own up to what you say, you should have no business saying it at all.
Maybe I just go right up to the girl and just say something like: "Hi. I hope you don't think I'm a snob because I don't always say hello when I see you. " But then I don't know what to say after that. The way I naturally am is to just be direct and honest and say something like: "It is because I have social anxiety". But from what I have learned about social rules, I don't think that would be such a good thing to say.
The issue for me is NOT that I don't have the balls to talk to her. It is more so that I am an awkward person and it is not in my nature to engage people. But if that is what I decided I was going to do, I will do it. The problem is, that I will have to FORCE myself to do this, thus it will not be natural and thus I know it will not work out. I've done this a few times in the past. Forced myself to approach a girl that I liked. But that approach never worked out for me so I think it would be foolish to try it that way again.
How I got her email? Lets just say we work in different departments. When she comes to where I work, due to the nature of the job we can't really talk. When I go over to where she works, it is a public and crowded place. I am totally out of my element in such at atmosphere. An approach would only be a forced and tensed one on my part. My tension and discomfort would only also make her uncomfortable.
This is why I have been considering the email. Because it seems like it is the only option I have. Unless some miracle were to happen, but life is too short to sit around and wait for those.
