stressed over thanksgiving

[Chasm]

i h8 tg
i call it hell week
im already a day behind in getting things ready
i really wish i could run away

 

[lola bunny]

i h8 tg
i call it hell week
im already a day behind in getting things ready
i really wish i could run away

try not to take it all on ur nerves ! this is su[posd to be time to have fun, maybe u should get someone to help with things around , or maybe you dont feel comfy meeting ur family? try to loosen up and let time pass as u try to enjoy no need to run away when u can have fun

 

[Chasm]

i h8 tg
i call it hell week
im already a day behind in getting things ready
i really wish i could run away

try not to take it all on ur nerves ! this is su[posd to be time to have fun, maybe u should get someone to help with things around , or maybe you dont feel comfy meeting ur family? try to loosen up and let time pass as u try to enjoy no need to run away when u can have fun

yeah im trying
thx
no help thats y i h8 it LoL
its just so much work
i dread it every yr
all this cooking and prep
uhg
but again thx

 

[Chasm]

guess im da only 1 who has 2 cook 4 tg on here huh
this my 13th yr doing dis
zzzzzzzzzzzzz
cant w8 till turkey becomes xtinct or something

 

[Rayri]

Dont stress. Take time to relax as well. Think about the positives ! not just the negatives. When youre done with your cooking, look at it and enjoy it. im sure youre a very fabulous chef Dont you have any family or friends who could pitch in and help you ? Again, dont stress be happy ! Thanksgiving is sweet.

 

[Chasm]

yeah
trying not 2 stress
ty
wut positives? LoL
this is where its not going good 4 me
trying 2c the positives
go thru this every yr
family? help me?
*laughing hysterically*
well no LoL
"tg is sweet" she says
ok u know wut?
ill try 2 hold on2 ur words
ty

 

[Rayri]

Oh im sorry if it was a little stupid.
But i need you to cheer up ! i dont want to see you so sad. T^T
and THANK YOU for doing that.
Smile.

 

[Chasm]

no way
not stupid @ all
i liked it

 

[Rayri]

s(^o^)z Well how about taht.
Good. Now get to it. Go take ahot shower and read a book. Or you could talk to meh !
Tahts good too right ? XD

 

[Chasm]

shower would mean id have 2 stand up LoL
@ least im done 4 the nite
c? im trying 2 look @ positives here!
LoL

 

[Rayri]

=3

 

[Chasm]

k well im done cooking 4 the day
woot!
evn tho no1 else cooks 4 tg on this forum its hard 2 believe no1 else xperiences any tg stress?

 

[Rayri]

Yes im stressed.
i want to look thinner and my face to be perfect so my relatives wont criticize when they see me this Thanksgiving.
Guess ill wear some concealer and a corset. Hopefully mum has some leftover mask. i dont want myface to get resistant to my honey mask. >:V

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i looked inthe mirror an hour ago and almost died. i look awful. i look like a baby whale. Looks like i have a beer gut and a pillow for a butt. ive gained some weight i can tell. i really need to find some oter way to cope with stress and boredom other than eating.

 

[Chasm]

ur relatives criticize u?
didnt think relatives would/could b like that on an occassion
thought it would b 1 of those "socially unacceptable" things

:club:
^ thats actually a huge turkey leg

 

[Rayri]

XD Your smileys =3
Yer they do all the tme. Ugh, i remember my great granny (i just call her grandma) looked at me and said "You done got fat !" XD
i get criticized alot.
My mother does alot XP like i said, my aunt and my mum hated my eyebrows before they were done and would say they're thick and black and ugly. My mum hates my hair color calls it "dusty" lol.
One of my brothers would tease me because i have a bit of a tummy and would ask could i see my feet if i looked down. There are alotmore, but thats all i want to think about right now. DX
Because of my family, ive never had self esteem. i've always hated myself. i used to tell my mother and she wouldnt really care. She'd say "Oh really.." and just get out of the car. So ive always assumed my family never really cared about me emotionally.

 

[Chasm]

u must b a very kind person
if my grandmother said "You done got fat!"
my mouth LoL would just not b good
my immediate thought on that would probably b "You done got uglier!"
ur just a better person than i am
it does sound like theyre really not taking ur feelings in2 consideration
especially ur mom
i would think 1 of a moms main priorities involving a daughter would b making sure she could go out in the world with a good self view
world can b brutal
n sumtimes that self view is all u have
i hope u find a way 2 develop it urself!

 

[Rayri]

When she said it, my cousin and his cousin started laughing.
i did say that to THEM though. They kept laughing though.
i was so embarrased and hurt i didnt know what to do. i just went inside.

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Probably cause youre older. My mum would either beat me to a pulp or yell if i said that to my grandmother. Just thinking about this incident is making me depressed.

 

[Chasm]

rough Rayri
im sorry

 

[Rayri]

Oh now i want to eat

 

[Chasm]

come over here
i like 2 feed ppl LoL
n im not even italian Lmao
+ no insults

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just 2 ppl stressed about tg on a forum of many
how is that even possible? LoL
but ne way
have 2 get back 2 cooking
just short brk
my breads rising
n my candied yams r sloooowly cooking
just wanted a small brk b4 i start the rolls
n only have 2 oven so have 2 time it that way anyway LoL
just 2 more days left of hell

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i meant only have 1 oven Rofl
must b wishful thinking LoLoLoL