cumulus.james
Well-known member
Someone online asked what is a very upsetting question for me. Quite a normal question for most people "how are you?". But what if there is no you?
I joined this forum in 2008. I was already dead inside by then. Empty. A hollowed out husk of a man. For more than 7 years I have spent almost every day alone. For over a decade I have not worked. I barely leave the house. I have no friends, I don't expect I ever will have besides those who might take pity enough to to respond to me on here. Such unfortunate people soon find themselves annoyed by my self-loathing. I will never know what it's like to have a long term partner. Since I was 13 all I knew was casual sex. That is no longer available to me now that I am old and ugly.
I just exist. But there is no content to that existence. I am much like Schrodingers unfortunate cat, in a state of quantum superposition. Depression gets the better of me. But there is no me. I am a ghost. A revolting spectre haunting the earth, for the most part invisible, unseen.
Einstein said to Bohr if nobody looks at the moon is the moon still there? The implication being that matter does not come into being until it is observed. It is worse than that for a human. The self does not exist unless it is loved. I never will be loved. I never will exist.
I joined this forum in 2008. I was already dead inside by then. Empty. A hollowed out husk of a man. For more than 7 years I have spent almost every day alone. For over a decade I have not worked. I barely leave the house. I have no friends, I don't expect I ever will have besides those who might take pity enough to to respond to me on here. Such unfortunate people soon find themselves annoyed by my self-loathing. I will never know what it's like to have a long term partner. Since I was 13 all I knew was casual sex. That is no longer available to me now that I am old and ugly.
I just exist. But there is no content to that existence. I am much like Schrodingers unfortunate cat, in a state of quantum superposition. Depression gets the better of me. But there is no me. I am a ghost. A revolting spectre haunting the earth, for the most part invisible, unseen.
Einstein said to Bohr if nobody looks at the moon is the moon still there? The implication being that matter does not come into being until it is observed. It is worse than that for a human. The self does not exist unless it is loved. I never will be loved. I never will exist.