Henbee
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I feel like I depend on other people (i.e a boyfriend) too much.
I've been in two relationships in the last 5years, and those 5years were a crucial part of me growing up and I guess it's affected me because I'm not sure how to be by myself because I always had someone there. So now that I'm not with anyone or not on the verge of being with anyone I feel as if I'm not functioning properly, I feel as if my insides are shutting down and I'm totally alone. I want to be independent, I want to be more confident alone but I have no idea where to start. I can't shake the feeling that I need someone else to comfort me rather than find comfort in myself.
I've been in two relationships in the last 5years, and those 5years were a crucial part of me growing up and I guess it's affected me because I'm not sure how to be by myself because I always had someone there. So now that I'm not with anyone or not on the verge of being with anyone I feel as if I'm not functioning properly, I feel as if my insides are shutting down and I'm totally alone. I want to be independent, I want to be more confident alone but I have no idea where to start. I can't shake the feeling that I need someone else to comfort me rather than find comfort in myself.