lovehurtme
Well-known member
After reading the frustration thread, it got me thinking about myself. I'm frustrated too, because I am usually casually dating someone (I hate being alone, another issue I have), but I still feel lonely. Even when I date more than one person, I'm still lonely. There is never a personal connect. They never call you unless they want something. The guy I'm dating now (well, kind of dating), never calls me. I don't even know if we are dating. I thought about the guys I date, and the guys that approach me. I know that clearly something about me (maybe the way I dress, my make-up, my hair, the way I carry myself, ect), is scary to nice guys, because they do not approach me. Players, jocks, and jerks approach me, but never nice guys. I'm actually more into nerds and introverts (kind of like me), and those guys never approach me. So what am I doing wrong? I think I'm going to the wrong places. Most nice guys don't hang out at parties, so where do they hang out? Honestly, is cleavage intimidating to nice guys, or does it send the wrong message? Do you have to dress like a librarian to get a nice guy to notice you? Do nice guys even approach women, or should I be on the lookout for them, and approach them? I am really uncomfortable approaching people, so it is unlikely that I will approach them honestly. Do nice guys even exist anymore?