Recent content by Alive42

I have aquaintances coming out my ears, but no one will call when they are having a bbq or just want to go for coffee - NOOOOOOOOOO. F all i want is a group of friends, you know, the group that calls you no matter whats going on. Oh well never good enough to be a friend.

I don't think you need to feel guilty - you going on those sites is no different than him looking at porn - we are married not dead, we can look and chat we just can't touch. Let's face it after you have been with someone forever it's going to get boring so you do what you have to, but if you...

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Good Luck and use all of us as your strength - no matter what her response you have us to catch you:)

Hi - welcome

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HI - welcome

Thanks for your reply and I can totally relate to the "leaving people a bit flat". People often think I am a ***** because of the way I come off, when often I am scared, shy and just plain don't know what to say:)

I honestly do not know how to reply to you. I have always considered myself to have 0 social skills, just because of how I feel around people in general. Talking online is different, I have the safety of the off button.

Actually - considering his sence of humor - he did it pretty good. There were a few crude spots, but he was just asking direct questions in different places to various people of religion. So, from his background it could have been bad bad bad, but I really think he was trying to make a point here.

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all of these suggestions are great - the only other suggestion I would add is because we all have a radius of personal space around us and when you go to group things this space tends to get invaded, which is another thing making us uncomfortable. So if you are ready to start going out into...

I agree, work through these feelings - don't let them build up. I was sexually abused as a child and neglected by my mother and the neglect/abandonment reeked more havoc on my life than the sexual abuse - and to this day still has daily affects. Get all the help you can and talk talk talk.

Please just be careful - mentally and physically - take someone with you, who you can give a signal to leave if you feel ok.

I can hear your quandry, but I don't believe mine are blunted because I never had them in the first place. If you did have them this could be a postive because the skills are there somewhere you just need to find the sharpener - just a thought.