Recent content by allanh

What Ak5 said is true

having an insight is the first step to redemption, well done! I think the first step for you is that every time you want to raise your voice or get angry, stop for a second and reconsider what you are about to do. I bet 99/100 you will not say/do what you are about to. Keep up the good work...

I have been using Google+ for about a month now. It's ok (like the video chat conference feature), but very few of my friends are using so it is kind of dead.

well, I am sorry you meet guys who are just looking for sex. But keep in mind that some of them may just be looking for potential partners (that's what meetups are for, right?) rather than "sex"

some mums are hot *jokes* -:P

Do NOT let an impulse push you into doing permanent damage to yourself. Think of all the people who love you (e.g. your family) and the fact that there are at least another 3 billion female species in this world whom you can potentially meet.....

I am so sorry to hear that your beloved mother is so unwell :( Unfortunately, there is nothing people can do to help if a dialysis patient becomes non-compliant..... it is already a miracle that the health system in your country is willing to start longterm dialysis on an 82yr old person...

that's why a lot of old people are depressed, because they no longer have goals in life

Dude, I understand what you are saying. It takes a lot of "mental effort" to put up with going out with someone whom you completely have no interest in. Let's face it, some people say you may grow to like her, but I believe that if her "type" (which may well be appearance or other things) is...

I can relate to you, mate. Except I am older than you. All I can say is that you are still very young and being 20 is still very early days in terms of getting a gf. Take your time.

well, one thing that is clear is that a selfish act can not possibly be classified as "courageous", which is what certain people on this thread is suggesting

I have being a geriatric doctor for a couple of months. Has your grandfather have stroke in the past? What age is he currently? Is a family history of Alzheimer's disease? Any Parkinson's disease features (blank face, drooling, shuffling gait, slow movements, rigidity....etc)? Has he had falls...

yeah, so suicide is a selfish act

If giving an opinion means calling people "arsehole" on a public forum, then I do not agree with him "giving an opinion"

you owe your parents for all the years they raise you to become an adult and all the love you receive from them. You owe your "filial piety" to them. For your wife, if you love each other, you owe her your love for the rest of your life. Anyhow, I view people who suicide being very selfish...