Recent content by brickinthewall

Hello and thank you for the replies, it really means much to me. Regarding the what I've been up to before. Not much really, I'm not the most interesting person in the world. I'm a med student, stayed 2 years at home due to not getting in the first tries, made it eventually. Now I'm in my 3rd...

Somehow I always seem to find my way back to this place. Sometimes I wonder how everything would be without me. It's as if I am taking up space that could be put to better use. I wish it would all stop, but it won't, it would be just too easy. I'm having a really really difficult time trying to...

Ha , thanks a lot , but I think that's more the photographers credit than mine! Nice to see everyone else!

This is me, haven't been around here for a while , last time I posted a pic I was a lot larger , lost quite some weight since then. With 2015 around I think I'll be spending a lot more time around here again so , hey everyone!

Just dropping in to say that I completely understand you OP, I'm pretty much in the same situation. Don't know what to say other then forget what anyone says , do what makes you happy and keep your hopes up.

I often find honesty is the best policy... lies tend to backfire. I think that being straightforward is the best thing, even if it might hurt him , he will get over it faster this way. Personally I've been lied to by women and it ended up haunting me for days - weeks - months. I prefer if...

I can kind of relate... I don't usually have the need for other people (apart from her) because I'm kind of an introvert , I enjoy spending time alone myself but now I'm just in the "can't stand a day without her" phase. I will definitely struggle to keep her, not planning to give up any time...

I guess that's just how some people are... think we just have to suck it up and deal with it (unfortunately).

Thanks for the reply! But in particular what drives me mad is the phone thing , not just her but generally hate it when you call someone 100 times and they don't answer (probably because I'm the kind that always answers or texts back if I can't). But you are right, maybe I should try and be a...

Been a while since I've posted here... so here I go.. I actually can't complain too much, had an amazing couple of weeks, met a girl that actually seemed interested in me (for the first time ever in my life). We've been sort of going out for almost a month now, but nothing really...

Just dropping by because I can certainly relate to this topic. It's always nice when people try to cheer you up or encourage you, it's the intention that counts, even if most of the times it just makes things worse. What's really bad though is when people start mocking you about this, like my...

Can't say I regret anything so far...not that I'm happy with how my life is going but frankly I just can't see myself doing things differently... I like to believe that sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe it's not very obvious or maybe you won't know until much later in your life...

To be honest , I've started realizing it the past few weeks. I'm 21 now , used to be rather fat and really shy of self esteem. Lost the weight , I'm kind of thankful of how I look now , my self esteem also got better along with this but things still don't seem to work out. I'm still rather...

Hey , yeah I'm in a similar situation myself , I wouldn't say people dislike me though , I'm more of a transparent person , people only notice/remember me when I'm standing right in front of them , if they don't see me I don't exist to them, having a pretty rough time with girls, although I have...

Sadly I've been trying a lot , specially lately , I just can't seem to get things right. I don't think it's because of my appearance, people usually tell me I'm good looking specially since I've started working out. The conclusion I reached that looks don't matter at all. If you have courage and...