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    Lonely but people can't tell

    Christian theologian are not necessarily Christians. Who are Christians? They are true followers of God, not just believers, followers, ones who do His will, and have entered the Kingdom of God. When Jesus came, he healed instantaneously. The power is still there and things of the past are still...
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    Lonely but people can't tell

    Hey guys, a short update. I've had an awakening experience, finally I now walk with the true God. My depression, anxiety, loneliness was instantaneously cured on March 1st, 2010. I've written a bunch of notes on facebook since by inspiration by the Holy Spirit, and many are able to see the truth...
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    Pretended to be somebody I'm not at the bar on Halloween night...

    lol I feel exactly the same way. I think people like us are out there, and because we are like this, we don't give others like us the opportunity to know us since we don't go out as much. I've always enjoyed things people older than me do and appreciate things that my generation tends not to but...
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    Finally realized I want to be more social but am in final year in university

    I think people's friendliness depend on the program and year you're in, but that doesn't take away the most important factor which is your own goal to make deeper relationships. As a first year, it's a really good thing that you still have 4 years to go, a really good way to meet people and...
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    Physical appearance - how important is it, in your opinion?

    As a guy, definitely physical appearance is the key to the first stage of attraction, but as you progress further, as in talk to her, and befriend her etc, physical appearance matters much less. But this is only because I don't approach girls just to get in their pants. To me the person is what...
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    Eye contact

    I always found it weird that when walking down the street or somewhere in public that people passing by would make eye contact with me. To me it made no sense, why the crap would you wanna make eye contact with people you don't know. Thinking this way actually made me feel insecure like maybe...
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    How do I Appear approachable to guys (so that they speak to me )?

    The most probable reason that I can come up with is that those guys lack the confidence to approach you because maybe you are really cute, since you seem to have good reason to believe that they do find you attractive. Sometimes guys can think "this girl's too good for me" and don't want to even...
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    The boredom of isolation

    I've experienced similar feelings, for me I found that it was because I lacked direction with my life and ultimately purpose. I don't think we are just physical beings, and that our bodies are just a box for our spirit and reflects the state of our spirit. Sounds to me like you would benefit...
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    Lonely but people can't tell

    Thanks everyone for the welcome. I think no matter what, it's all about our perspective on our circumstances, whatever age we might be, as long as we are still living, there is potential. Every time I feel like I wasted time, I try to remind myself that time is only wasted if I recognize...
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    Do I have depression?

    I would say it's highly likely that you have depression. For me it look 1 year to realize that what I was experiencing was depression. I focused only on the physical symptoms and spent so much time trying to explain them and wasn't open to the idea that I had a psychological problem. My advice...
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    Finally realized I want to be more social but am in final year in university

    Yeah I know it's all my perception of things, and am actually considering masters of engineering, which is just 1 year, to extend my time. I'm not really interested in meeting the people in engineering masters programs, just that I would like to live downtown on campus and take advantage of all...
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    Bullied, can't make friends, men hate me, and I just don't know what to do now...:(

    From your post you sound amazingly cheerful and normal for someone in your situation. If you didn't try hard to do that, then I think that's something to admire really. Being bullied especially about your image has got to be one of the most traumatizing things someone can experience and has...
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    Finally realized I want to be more social but am in final year in university

    To sum up my issue with 1 sentence would be: I'm in 4th year and graduating next year, but I finally realized that I want to be more social, honeysuckle. I've always had small groups of close friends and the ones I keep now are drawing further away since we're all moving onto different areas of...
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    Lonely but people can't tell

    Hi guys, I found this place, probably same as many of you, through google when searching for topics on loneliness. I'm a 22 year old 4th year computer engineering student. I didn't consciously accept that I was lonely for a long time but there was definitely something there building up ready to...
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