Recent content by DakotaDesert

Hi Luna, I do not know what causes that loneliness or depression that you have but I am very sorry for you. I am in depression for 2 years now and I know it can be really painfull and hard. I have experienced the therapy with a psychologist and it did change nothing for me. I remember that when...

Why not adding a big reunion for a weekend sometimes? Is it a good idea? Like a high school reunion.

In fact I tried the medecine thing but it worked for a while and now I am back to the situation from before. I tried to work out because it seems that making sport makes you produce some andorphine (not sure of the word) but it did not work either. I tried to get myself involved in different...

I have 2 great happy and healthy daughters. I have very good friends. I have a good job and no financial problem. No problem at all in fact. I am single but want it to be that way for the moment. Despite all of that, I am depressed and feel lonely. I feel like I am the only one on earth to be so...

I am a 40-year old mom and I am divorced. I did the mistake 21 years ago: I married the wrong guy. I realized the error 15 years after I made it. Based on few experiences (marriage and boyfriends) and some of my friends experiences, I can tell you that women in my position do not look for Mister...

My advice is: he says he likes you just because he wants to be sure that you are there when he needs you, when the others girls he sees are not available. He is playing with you, with your feelings. Go away from him. No relationship lasts when it is based on lies. The only one who will be hurt...

3 sec? I wonder "what is the favorite number? 69, 96...? Hope is not a zero..." lol

She is not worth it. Only the no-brain girls act that way. No, not all the women are like the one you are talking about. In fact, the nervousness is the proof that you are not a jurk and you are sensible. And I am sure that 90% of the women think the same. Am I wrong girls??

I agree with all of you. As I said above, cheating is bad and should not happen at all. Yes, it hurts, it happened to me once, so I know what you are talking about. But we will not change people behavior. The cheaters will not stop cheating. And there are so many, it makes me try to understand...

So I'll try to stay positive. Thanks for your support.

Cheating is not a good thing to do but we have to be realistic. Most of the people who cheat on their wife/husband/gf/bf do it because they are not happy or satisfied with their life or wife/husband/gf/bf. They stay in their relationship for many reasons: kids, financial, love... but they need...

I am doing the same. I concentrate on my kids, on my work and try to keep myself busy the more I can. It helps to keep my mind away from the sadness. I feel lonely anyway but I have been so disappointed by men that right now I prefer to stay away from them. That's sucks. Your advice helps me...

Don't feel guilty. You are doing nothing wrong. You hurt nobody. Your life is yours, not other people life. You are the only one who can and has to decide for yourself. Really, there is nothing to be ashame of or to feel guilty about.

So you are in the same situation. How do you manage that? What do you get over the disappointment and the sadness? One time after another it hurts less and less but it is still painfull. And the feeling that I will never be happy ever again with a man makes things worst. I think that being with...

Yes it sucks. Do "normal" men exist somewhere? What is the point of living life with drama and problems? I have a cool, nice, fun life. I like it that way. I hate when problems happen and try to avoid them. Life is short, we have to take advantage of the good and get rid of the bad as fast as we...